Team,

Hope everyone is well. I haven't been on these forums for a while but I need some assistance. Ill keep it short as possible.

Im really into this girl, maybe a one-itis etc... But whatever, i know the GAME but I'm kinda stuck on how to proceed. I want to keep my self respect and be THE MAN in the situation. I wanna have sex with her, or get a fwb going.

So this girl and I met a year ago, we were both super attracted to each other. She had a bf on and off that Im not sure she knew, I knew about. We hooked up but then she (I think) felt guilty, so months would pass before wed see each other again. We were in same community college. Anyways, I kinda got over it and broke contact and 5 months passed. In those months she's liked everyone of my instagram pics. Kind of like saying 'don't forget about me"...

So last week, I txt her lets grab a drink and she agrees and is excited about it. So we go get a drink and then bounce to a mutual friends bar and eat and keep drinking. Now this is where it sucks: Her bf calls and meets up with us.
Mind you, she's never mentioned him anytime we've gone out, and then he shows up. I mean, I've seen her instgram pics with him, so I think she knew I knew...

Anyways, the thing is she's on my jock now... txting me to come to parties at her house, she's totally trying to hang out now, telling me crazy stories of her going down on a girl, and how she let her bf have sex with her best friend in front of her etc.. she also mentioned "well he had sex with someone , now its my turn" etc.. Also, she's super into taking molly now!!.... she parties.

OK, so my question: I like this girl, I don't want to hang with her and her bf. How do I keep my relationship going without seeming like the boyfriend is getting to me? Do I deny invites to her house? do I brush her off? .... I think she's friendzoning the f**k out of me. She's talking about eating pussy and picking up girls with me/ for me etc...
I treated her like a bro, kind of. I had no other choice. This is never happened to me with a girl I like. F**K ... I feel friend zoned as hell, but I know she's still sexually into me. does that mean I'm not friend zoned? Im so confused , what would you do??

how do I stay alpha and strong when this sh*t is bugging me. ?? I don't want to avoid the situation and look like Im running and that her having a bf is getting to me. What should I do??? ... And please don't say drop her and f**k other girls. Ill do that regardless, but this is "the game" and i want to win. please help ......

chris

Ok I think the issue here is that you like this girl so you don't want just to fuck her but you want to make her to be your girlfriend. Since it bothers you now that he has a man imagine what will happen when you two get together and she starts fucking around with other people. Because I can bet my money she will.

You can easily fuck her by just ignoring the fact that she has a boyfriend and hang out with her, just the two of you then escalate and fuck her.

However if you mention that it bothers you that she has a boyfriend she's gonna loose any attraction.

This is a situation where you can make her a fuck buddy. But don't expect anything else.