Alright, met this HB9 at a wedding in another city from where we both live on Sunday. As fate worked out, I was going to be in her city this upcoming week. I got her # and we agreed to meetup this weekend. I sense she is very much interested.

What are good date ideas? Keep in mind I basically have this one meeting and potentially none other for an extended period of time since we live in different cities, so want to make it memorable without being over the top. We will be meeting in Manhattan, so I figure something outdoors around central park is a good idea if things are going well. I am looking for places where kino can be done easily and lots of observational things that can be brought up if I run out of conversation.

Also when do you recommend I text/call her to finalize plans? I basically said upcoming Sunday would work best for me at the wedding, and we should meetup for lunch or coffee. I texted once since we met and she responded last night and added "Have a good work week, see you soon ". Or would you recommend I build more rapport before finalizing plans with her? I sense she is busy with her job during the work, so I don't want to over use the text prior to meeting, but open to your thoughts.

Thanks

Even with the given circumstances, I would probably take her out for a nice dinner and drinks. Check Yelp for pictures (or you can call the places you have in mind) to find out if the place looks romantic (more romantic and darker place will probably be more memorable for her), and also try to find out how the tables/seats are arranged. This would make it easier to be not too far from her and be able to use kino during the night. I don't think there is a special rule as to when to confirm your meeting with her. If anything, I would confirm earlier to prevent her from having room to flake; or, if she is going to flake anyway, at least you will know in advance. Good luck dude...