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PostPosted: Mon Sep 09, 2013 8:20 am 
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This girl I am seeing admitted to me today she had a fantasy of being penetrated in the ass and pussy simultaneously, though she has never done it, and doubts it would be easy to find a guy down with it.

I am definitely not cool with doing that myself, but I don't think any less of her. What I read from it is that she's loyal but kind of kinky. She's bi and I know there will be "the good kind" of threesomes in the future, without handicaps.


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 09, 2013 8:58 am 
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Get over yourself you big pussy. If she'd had a threesome with two other girls you'd be grinning your head off. She's had more fun than you in the past and like a typical silly little boy you cannot handle it. So many dicks for her to suck and admire ... Mmmmm I bet she loved it!!! What woman wouldn't?? All those cocks to play with and the orgasms they had Fucking yeh baby!!!! You watch porn dont you? Well she was living the dream man. If you had 3 girls giving you a good going over you'd be grinning your head off. Why can't she? Because she's a woman? Only men can fuck 2/3 girls at a time? Is it because Ohhhhhh your poor little ego and male pride can't stand it because you 're DA MAN. If you'd had a great sex life like she had you'd be bragging about it so why can't she? Has your dick shrivelled up and won't come out because she's had good, hardcore, fucking great sex with other men? if so then get with a nun or something or grow a pair you big wuss. After you've fucked her there'll be others too. Dick head. Get over yourself. Women like sex before you and after you just like men. Be proud of her.
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PostPosted: Mon Sep 09, 2013 9:06 am 
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The good time 3 somes are a bloke with two girls. A bad time 3 some is a girl with two blokes. We are hypocritical to the bitter end. No wonder girls laugh at us and think we're so fucking shallow. We want to fuck a slut but marry a bloody virgin. We deserve every head fuck we get. If our girlfriends said it was okay for a 3 some we'd automatically think yeh me, her and her good looking friend. We'd never think she wanted us and another bloke and we'd go red rag with rage at the thought of it. Girls can see right through us and the hypocritical double standards we have. And in 2013 as well. Guys we need to accept that girls like 2 men at a time just as much as we like 2 women. Equality. Why should we have our fun and they can't :D .


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 09, 2013 12:21 pm 
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I've dealt with girls with slutty pasts, (in fact a FWB I just ended...not for that, but because she was getting clingy). No one here can give you advice as to whether or not YOU can deal with it. But I can say this. When she was with me, she was MY slut.
Agreed. The OP has his view on what type of girl he wants, and when he realized his girl didnt fit into HIS view,he respected himself enough to walk away. Instead of having to deal with something to make a relationship work, he knows there are other women out there and he'll find another that fits his standards. If he had tried to deal with it, he would be another Stephen B, with multiple threads coming back because he's suffering over his girls' past and trying to change his mindset about women to match those of strangers online.


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 09, 2013 12:28 pm 
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The good time 3 somes are a bloke with two girls. A bad time 3 some is a girl with two blokes. We are hypocritical to the bitter end. No wonder girls laugh at us and think we're so fucking shallow. We want to fuck a slut but marry a bloody virgin. We deserve every head fuck we get. If our girlfriends said it was okay for a 3 some we'd automatically think yeh me, her and her good looking friend. We'd never think she wanted us and another bloke and we'd go red rag with rage at the thought of it. Girls can see right through us and the hypocritical double standards we have. And in 2013 as well. Guys we need to accept that girls like 2 men at a time just as much as we like 2 women. Equality. Why should we have our fun and they can't :D .
It takes zero charm, charisma, talent, skill for a good looking woman to have two dudes bang her at the same time. This is the point. All she needs to be is sufficiently slutty and she should be able to pull this off. Probably on the regular if she wanted. For a guy, you need game. You need to be attractive. And you need to find two willing chicks. It is much harder to pull off in my opinion.

I may have been OK with it if it was just one time. Maybe. I don't know. But the multiple. It was just too much for me to be in an LTR with.


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 09, 2013 1:35 pm 
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I've dealt with girls with slutty pasts, (in fact a FWB I just ended...not for that, but because she was getting clingy). No one here can give you advice as to whether or not YOU can deal with it. But I can say this. When she was with me, she was MY slut.
Agreed. The OP has his view on what type of girl he wants, and when he realized his girl didnt fit into HIS view,he respected himself enough to walk away. Instead of having to deal with something to make a relationship work, he knows there are other women out there and he'll find another that fits his standards. If he had tried to deal with it, he would be another Stephen B, with multiple threads coming back because he's suffering over his girls' past and trying to change his mindset about women to match those of strangers online.
Well said.

lol @ all the guys on PU moaning about a guy keeping to his standards.

Correct me if i'm wrong here but wasn't PU more about quality and not fucking just about anything? If you have standards - however high they may be - you should stick to them. If a chick is hot but a slut her quality immediately lowers. She just isn't relationship material in the eyes of many men and you know what? We're allowed to feel that way just as women are free to feel that way about man whores. Not our fault women don't feel so lowly of man whores yet we do of sluts.


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You did the right thing. When soneone challenges your core beliefs they need to be dealt with. I would've done the same thing. It's not about jealousy or insecurity. The old quote holds true. There's no whore like a reformed whore. Find someone quality for a LTR. Fuck this little shores ass while your looking.


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To the guy who said threesomes with 2x girls is hypocritical / double standards, you're wrong. It is the alpha male instinct to mate with multiple females in any group of mammals (eg. Lions, bulls, chimps etc.) And it is the female instinct to find that male the most attractive. This is why the more threesomes you have, the more opportunities for threesomes you get.

But, it's not natural for a woman to get boned by loads of males at once, in the wild we would just kill each other, then the winner would fuck the female.

And WTF is wrong with these dudes who spitroast / DP women? Crossing swords and rubbing ballsacks?? Not cool, just very very gay. Only acceptable hetero behaviour if you are being paid in a porn scene.


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To the guy who said threesomes with 2x girls is hypocritical / double standards, you're wrong. It is the alpha male instinct to mate with multiple females in any group of mammals (eg. Lions, bulls, chimps etc.) And it is the female instinct to find that male the most attractive. This is why the more threesomes you have, the more opportunities for threesomes you get.

But, it's not natural for a woman to get boned by loads of males at once, in the wild we would just kill each other, then the winner would fuck the female.

And WTF is wrong with these dudes who spitroast / DP women? Crossing swords and rubbing ballsacks?? Not cool, just very very gay. Only acceptable hetero behaviour if you are being paid in a porn scene.
As long as your dick doesn't touch mine and we don't make eye contact, its not gay...


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As long as your dick doesn't touch mine and we don't make eye contact, its not gay...
its only gay if you enjoy it :lol:

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PostPosted: Mon Sep 09, 2013 6:53 pm 
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You did the right thing. When soneone challenges your core beliefs they need to be dealt with. I would've done the same thing. It's not about jealousy or insecurity. The old quote holds true. There's no whore like a reformed whore. Find someone quality for a LTR. Fuck this little shores ass while your looking.
You gotta wonder if a chick can ever truly be a reformed whore..... It's like alcoholics. Once they go to AA, alcohol still controls their life. Instead of their life revolving around drinking, it revolves around not drinking and avoiding anything that triggers it. Going from raging whore to 6 years of monogamy is an extreme....and you gotta wonder if she's really reformed.


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You did the right thing. When soneone challenges your core beliefs they need to be dealt with. I would've done the same thing. It's not about jealousy or insecurity. The old quote holds true. There's no whore like a reformed whore. Find someone quality for a LTR. Fuck this little shores ass while your looking.
You gotta wonder if a chick can ever truly be a reformed whore..... It's like alcoholics. Once they go to AA, alcohol still controls their life. Instead of their life revolving around drinking, it revolves around not drinking and avoiding anything that triggers it. Going from raging whore to 6 years of monogamy is an extreme....and you gotta wonder if she's really reformed.

Don't get me wrong. I can appreciate a good whore for all she's worth but I sure as hell won't be keeping it. Lol

I'm my opinion they can't change. They could but it would be very rare. Rare enough I wouldn't even gamble on a LTR with a girl like that. Depends on the guy and his goals if this behavior is acceptable. I came here to learn about women so the girlfriend and I can both be happy in our relationship. That's what I'm after. Statistically the more sexual partners a women has the more likely the marriage will end in divorce. I'm here to learn how to protect my future assets. I want to make an educated decision on the woman I choose. Learning a lot. Trips me out to see all these emotional guys. Marriage is a business decision. The biggest one youll ever make. Don't go all in on a whore. That's my view.


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You did the right thing. When soneone challenges your core beliefs they need to be dealt with. I would've done the same thing. It's not about jealousy or insecurity. The old quote holds true. There's no whore like a reformed whore. Find someone quality for a LTR. Fuck this little shores ass while your looking.
You gotta wonder if a chick can ever truly be a reformed whore..... It's like alcoholics. Once they go to AA, alcohol still controls their life. Instead of their life revolving around drinking, it revolves around not drinking and avoiding anything that triggers it. Going from raging whore to 6 years of monogamy is an extreme....and you gotta wonder if she's really reformed.

Don't get me wrong. I can appreciate a good whore for all she's worth but I sure as hell won't be keeping it. Lol

I'm my opinion they can't change. They could but it would be very rare. Rare enough I wouldn't even gamble on a LTR with a girl like that. Depends on the guy and his goals if this behavior is acceptable. I came here to learn about women so the girlfriend and I can both be happy in our relationship. That's what I'm after. Statistically the more sexual partners a women has the more likely the marriage will end in divorce. I'm here to learn how to protect my future assets. I want to make an educated decision on the woman I choose. Learning a lot. Trips me out to see all these emotional guys. Marriage is a business decision. The biggest one youll ever make. Don't go all in on a whore. That's my view.

I'm an idiot cause I caught feelings. But I figured "no way this chick is a huge slut, she just got out of a 6 year relationship." Idiot.


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Also great point on alcoholism. I feel the same way. It's stupid. When I was a young man I had some problems with drugs and alcohol. I cold turkeyed all of it many years ago. I don't even think about it now unless I read it. I always said how does meeting losers to use with help you to "recover"?
Like you said it keeps it fresh on their mind. Thinking about it 24/7 they'll never be cured. The way to be cured is to build a life around you that you don't want to lose to a substance. Sure I'd like to catch a buzz, I just have too much responsibility.

Sorry to hear this chick gamed you. The 6 year relationship would trick almost anyone. Another great thing about this forum. Lets you see things like this happening to others. Might prevent another guy from going down the same road.


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But, it's not natural for a woman to get boned by loads of males at once, in the wild we would just kill each other, then the winner would fuck the female.
Who cares about what would happen in the wild? It's 2013, not the stone age. This is ALL hypocrisy BS.

Personally, I don't care about a woman's past at all. That was the past and she's with me now. I'll only care about what she does during that time. She fucks up, off she goes. Certainly, this way I can get hurt easier than just avoiding the "slutty" type, but for me, the risk is completely worth it.

Don't get me wrong... I do have a value system, but the girls' pasts have nothing to do with that. It's basically about her behaviour, sense of humour, general view on life, personality traits, and looks.

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