Hi Guys,

My problem is getting my GF attached to me.

This is my first post here. I been with my GF for almost 2 years now. But she moved to another city where it is kind of hard for me to go over but not so hard for her to come over to where I stay.

Anyway, ever since she moved to that new city, she has her new social circle, which keeps her so busy she doesn't even have time to call me. It is not like she is doing something important, she is just chilling with her new friends.

I feel I DLV a lot these days and but trying to DHV only makes me an asshole for some reason and we end up arguing. I must be doing it wrong. I want to marry her but cant for the next 5 years at least. I certainly don't want to lose her before that. Day before yesterday, she stopped being chatty. She is not angry, sad or upset about anything. She said she needs time to come back to me and she probably will after a few days. She is just not feeling it for me. We are meeting on 27th of this month. She is coming over.

What do I do guys? How do I get her obsessed about me. I feel like I have no game. Should I make myself less available for her and see how it goes? Also, is there something I could do, when I meet her? I dont have anything planned apart from sex. I don't know when and if I will ever meet her again.

you should be doing what she is EXACTLY doing to you: hanging out with new people and not talking to the past. The only thing you can do is to convey abundance and that you dont' need her. You are being too needy and this is a definite DLV.

I don't believe in long distance relationship. Make the first move and suggest an open relationship. It'll freak her out why you asked her that, but it'll also gauge whether this relationship is worth moving forward into something more serious.

I suggested an open relationship even before she moved to the new city. I have another friend, who I have no romantic feelings for but there is a lot of physical intimacy with her. So I would probably go out with her more and do stuff. But like I mentioned before, i want to marry the one I am in love with. I don't want to let her go. Is there no way of getting her more attached to me?