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Honestly man,
If you want a cool girl, you are going to have to make peace with the fact that she has been sexually active with other guys before you. You can think you are something special all you want.... but she didn't know you then. So, to her, at that point in her life... you were non existent. You are obviously special to her now if she is coming out and telling you about this. The best thing you can do is act completely unaffected. It's not something you can change about her. If you act like it doesn't bother you, it won't.
This.
All sexually attractive women have been sexually active with a bunch of dudes. It's just something you need to deal with and get over.
Basically what she just told you is she's down for threesomes.
I'm not sure how that's a problem.
Also, no--don't commit to slutty girls.
When they tell you about their "slutty phase" in college or whatever, don't make the mistake of thinking that phase is over. They want to sell you the image of being a "reformed slut" to plant the idea in your head that they're commitment-worthy, and obviously it worked like a charm on you.
She's nearing The Wall and deciding that perhaps going around banging hot guys isn't the best way for her to wind up with a husband. So she's either trying monogamy, or pretending to.
She definitely cheated in her 6-year "monogamous" relationship.
I wouldn't leave completely, but downgrade her to a fuckbuddy.