Both of these work really, really well...
"I wanna ask you something that has kept me sleepless for nights and I want you to be totally honest with me. It might make things awkward between us after I ask you this but I have to know how you feel. I have had this question on my mind for a while now and I think it's time for me to just be straight up and confront you on it. I truly hope this doesn't ruin the relationship that we already have. I just need to know and I don't see any other way I could get over this. It wouldn't be fair on my part if I didn't get an answer. I want you to tell me truthfully, no matter how harsh your answer is. I just want your honest opinion.... Do you like coke or lemonade?"
or
"Seriously, (insert girls name here). This shit has got to stop. The late night phone calls. The constant text messages. You are being ridiculous. That is NOT how you get a man.
Enjoy
