Ok so I was seeing this girl for about a month. Two weeks ago she asked me to be her boyfriend. Everything has been going great. We have both been taking initiative. Anyways today I text her something flirty in the morning. It took her three hours to get back to me. Her dad and sister complain about her taking a while to text back so I figured it's no big deal.

Anyways the last text she sent me was "Would it be cool if we hung out after dinner? My dad needs 'girl advice' (her dad was telling us about how he was going to dump his girlfriend).

I sent back "Ah girls are always trouble. What time are you thinking? I can't be up all night again! .

She has since gotten off work and would have had lots of time to text me during her commute from work to her dad's place. Should I call her and confront or just wait it out. It's incredibly frustrating as I know for a fact that she has seen it. Thanks for the help!

UPDATE: She just texted me: "we just finished dinner, I'll call you soon! "
It's not too late by any means for her to come over. But I don't see how she couldn't have seen that text and then gotten back to me. I'm thinking maybe I should arrange other plans and then let her know "oops. You didn't get back to me so I went ahead and planned a jam night with the boys. Plans tomorrow?" As a way of letting her know I'm not on her beck and call if she doesn't bother getting back to me. Am I over reacting or is she playing games? Thanks again!

UPDATE 2: I called her back after waiting for a bit
Her: "Hey I'm just taking my dog for a walk can I call you in a bit?"
Me: "I'm just going to go hang out with Sam. We'll figure something out."
Her "Ok bye." (I hang up before she can finish bye)

UPDATE 3: Immediately after I hang up I get this text: "I'm sorry
My reply: It's pretty rude. Your lucky I'm hard to phase. I guess you owe me an explanation when you get a chance. I hope your dad is doing alright.

Hopefully she calls me and I guess we will see what happens from there. Do you think I made the right move?

i don’t see what is the problem. get a second girlfriend if this one isn’t there as much as you want her to. get as many women as you feel you need to occupy you. and make them compete for your attention.

You don't see what the problem is? We had plans. She said there was a delay. I asked how long so I would know whether to make other plans. She ignores me until her convenience. I don't think it's cool to make someone you originally had plans with wait to find out if you are actually going to hang out or not. I could have arranged other plans or something. Other girlfriends aren't an option. I'm not going to go cheat at the first sign of disagreement.

She might made a mistake but you were acting like an absolute chode.

She doesn't reply to you immediately and you get upset ? WTF. She has a life too.

However if she has cancelled the meeting then tell her that this is disrespectful straight up and like a man and that you won't accept this behaviour in the future. No need to play this "oh you didn't get back to me so I'm not available anymore" passive aggressive bullshit.

I understand your frustration it sucks. You just have to tell her that making plans then forgetting them is not acceptable for you.

Don't listen to people telling you get another girl or cheat. If you want to consider this relationship seriously.

Haha you should not be in a LTR if you have to use text routines to get her to respond to her own boyfriend hahaha

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women do this. this is why you meet other women. because obviously she isn’t right for you. why settle for a woman at the point of selection.
fuck it. do what you want, but don’t ask.

to stop the texts from taking so long dont put up with it. tell her if we make plans i expect you as my GF to stick to them... if you dont then there will be consequences, like me withdrawing my attention from you. (soft next...aka no contact for 2-3 days) If she really likes you she will figure out quickly THAT by you not responding and chasing she wont be late next time... or she will lose you. And if she still flakes then move on... dont let her tool you and your values. be strong, stick to your plan, and relax.

Duke