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PostPosted: Mon Aug 26, 2013 9:51 pm 
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Titles says it all. I got her number thursday. I don't know why I'm so attracted to her she's not even a 9 but I can tell she's a nice girl. Some might say that sounds beta but I don't give a fuck, fuck yourself. Anyways I've been texting her over the weekend keeping up a c&f routine which she reacts well too. She's given me a few iois in person (I have class with her) like facing my directions, playing with her hair when talking to me. I asked her what 3 positive qualities describe her as Joshua Pellicer said to do in "Tao of Badass" to get her to qualify herself to me and see where I stand.

I cold read and said she seemed shy to which she agreed smiling. She only gave me two but she said she's shy but she's also a freak. (Fuck yeah) One sexual one emotional meaning she's attracted to me (According to tao of badass :x :) ) NOW. 3 days ago she got asked out by some guy (Keep in mind me and her met only like last week.) and I guess they're girlfriend and boyfriend now. Some might say move on, which i could easily do, but fuck that. I want to see the best of my abilities. I want to see if I'm capable of winning over the love of her from somebody else. Not just to be a douchebag, because I like her and as pua I want to test out whatever I can.

I've been gaming her very well but I've only been light on kino (I'll work on that next time i see her.)

But anyways guys, what do you think my next move should be? I'm gonna text her today as I didn't yesterday but I did friday and saturday and got good responses she was laughing yada yada yada.

Should I mention hanging out via text or in person? Phone call? She hasn't told me she has a boyfriend, she told her friend and I overheard. Just looking for your guys's advice and opinion on this. As I'm not exactly a professional.. BUT I can say I'm more advanced in this pua thing.


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Titles says it all. I got her number thursday. I don't know why I'm so attracted to her she's not even a 9 but I can tell she's a nice girl. Some might say that sounds beta but I don't give a fuck, fuck yourself. Anyways I've been texting her over the weekend keeping up a c&f routine which she reacts well too. She's given me a few iois in person (I have class with her) like facing my directions, playing with her hair when talking to me. I asked her what 3 positive qualities describe her as Joshua Pellicer said to do in "Tao of Badass" to get her to qualify herself to me and see where I stand.

I cold read and said she seemed shy to which she agreed smiling. She only gave me two but she said she's shy but she's also a freak. (Fuck yeah) One sexual one emotional meaning she's attracted to me (According to tao of badass :x :) ) NOW. 3 days ago she got asked out by some guy (Keep in mind me and her met only like last week.) and I guess they're girlfriend and boyfriend now. Some might say move on, which i could easily do, but fuck that. I want to see the best of my abilities. I want to see if I'm capable of winning over the love of her from somebody else. Not just to be a douchebag, because I like her and as pua I want to test out whatever I can.

I've been gaming her very well but I've only been light on kino (I'll work on that next time i see her.)

But anyways guys, what do you think my next move should be? I'm gonna text her today as I didn't yesterday but I did friday and saturday and got good responses she was laughing yada yada yada.

Should I mention hanging out via text or in person? Phone call? She hasn't told me she has a boyfriend, she told her friend and I overheard. Just looking for your guys's advice and opinion on this. As I'm not exactly a professional.. BUT I can say I'm more advanced in this pua thing.
Keep in mind man that what you are attempting to pull off will require a considerable amount of skill. But I guess I don't need to remind you because you seem aware of this already.

Ok so from what I can gather she's not being going out with this guy for very long, which is fantastic as it'll make your job much easier. Also one thing I'd like to point out is that you said you were gaming this girl for a week or so but she recently got a boyfriend regardless.

If she was attracted to you she wouldn't have gotten a boyfriend so my guess is that you didn't DHV or kino escalate enough. Now running a cocky/funny game with her over text is all well and good but it means nothing unless you see her face to face again. While text game has it's place there are soooo many things that you can do in person which is impossible to do over text.

So organise a date between you two as friends and at this point you're going to want to employ the Straw Man technique ( straw-man-technique-vt43374.html ). You can't openly talk shit about her boyfriend or else you'll alienate her and make yourself look like an asshole. If you want to make sure that she starts having second thoughts about her boyfriend then DLV or AMOG him the next time you see him. If you are the dominant one between you two then you'll be more sexually attractive to her than he will be. But remember, subtlety is key. I'm going to say that again. Subtlety. Is. Key. If she even THINKS that you are trying to break them up you can pretty much kiss your chances with her goodbye.

So keep in mind that this is a high risk game your playing man but the potential reward can be worth it in the end. It's all up to you whether or not you play.

Best of luck man. Keep us posted,

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Titles says it all. I got her number thursday. I don't know why I'm so attracted to her she's not even a 9 but I can tell she's a nice girl. Some might say that sounds beta but I don't give a fuck, fuck yourself. Anyways I've been texting her over the weekend keeping up a c&f routine which she reacts well too. She's given me a few iois in person (I have class with her) like facing my directions, playing with her hair when talking to me. I asked her what 3 positive qualities describe her as Joshua Pellicer said to do in "Tao of Badass" to get her to qualify herself to me and see where I stand.

I cold read and said she seemed shy to which she agreed smiling. She only gave me two but she said she's shy but she's also a freak. (Fuck yeah) One sexual one emotional meaning she's attracted to me (According to tao of badass :x :) ) NOW. 3 days ago she got asked out by some guy (Keep in mind me and her met only like last week.) and I guess they're girlfriend and boyfriend now. Some might say move on, which i could easily do, but fuck that. I want to see the best of my abilities. I want to see if I'm capable of winning over the love of her from somebody else. Not just to be a douchebag, because I like her and as pua I want to test out whatever I can.

I've been gaming her very well but I've only been light on kino (I'll work on that next time i see her.)

But anyways guys, what do you think my next move should be? I'm gonna text her today as I didn't yesterday but I did friday and saturday and got good responses she was laughing yada yada yada.

Should I mention hanging out via text or in person? Phone call? She hasn't told me she has a boyfriend, she told her friend and I overheard. Just looking for your guys's advice and opinion on this. As I'm not exactly a professional.. BUT I can say I'm more advanced in this pua thing.
Keep in mind man that what you are attempting to pull off will require a considerable amount of skill. But I guess I don't need to remind you because you seem aware of this already.

Ok so from what I can gather she's not being going out with this guy for very long, which is fantastic as it'll make your job much easier. Also one thing I'd like to point out is that you said you were gaming this girl for a week or so but she recently got a boyfriend regardless.

If she was attracted to you she wouldn't have gotten a boyfriend so my guess is that you didn't DHV or kino escalate enough. Now running a cocky/funny game with her over text is all well and good but it means nothing unless you see her face to face again. While text game has it's place there are soooo many things that you can do in person which is impossible to do over text.

So organise a date between you two as friends and at this point you're going to want to employ the Straw Man technique ( straw-man-technique-vt43374.html ). You can't openly talk shit about her boyfriend or else you'll alienate her and make yourself look like an asshole. If you want to make sure that she starts having second thoughts about her boyfriend then DLV or AMOG him the next time you see him. If you are the dominant one between you two then you'll be more sexually attractive to her than he will be. But remember, subtlety is key. I'm going to say that again. Subtlety. Is. Key. If she even THINKS that you are trying to break them up you can pretty much kiss your chances with her goodbye.

So keep in mind that this is a high risk game your playing man but the potential reward can be worth it in the end. It's all up to you whether or not you play.

Best of luck man. Keep us posted,

Spark Plug
I did it she likes me. She told me she likes me. I otld her if she didnt break up with her boyfriend by friday im done. I'm no second option and I'm not waiting. She said she understands. Good or bad?


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Titles says it all. I got her number thursday. I don't know why I'm so attracted to her she's not even a 9 but I can tell she's a nice girl. Some might say that sounds beta but I don't give a fuck, fuck yourself. Anyways I've been texting her over the weekend keeping up a c&f routine which she reacts well too. She's given me a few iois in person (I have class with her) like facing my directions, playing with her hair when talking to me. I asked her what 3 positive qualities describe her as Joshua Pellicer said to do in "Tao of Badass" to get her to qualify herself to me and see where I stand.

I cold read and said she seemed shy to which she agreed smiling. She only gave me two but she said she's shy but she's also a freak. (Fuck yeah) One sexual one emotional meaning she's attracted to me (According to tao of badass :x :) ) NOW. 3 days ago she got asked out by some guy (Keep in mind me and her met only like last week.) and I guess they're girlfriend and boyfriend now. Some might say move on, which i could easily do, but fuck that. I want to see the best of my abilities. I want to see if I'm capable of winning over the love of her from somebody else. Not just to be a douchebag, because I like her and as pua I want to test out whatever I can.

I've been gaming her very well but I've only been light on kino (I'll work on that next time i see her.)

But anyways guys, what do you think my next move should be? I'm gonna text her today as I didn't yesterday but I did friday and saturday and got good responses she was laughing yada yada yada.

Should I mention hanging out via text or in person? Phone call? She hasn't told me she has a boyfriend, she told her friend and I overheard. Just looking for your guys's advice and opinion on this. As I'm not exactly a professional.. BUT I can say I'm more advanced in this pua thing.
Keep in mind man that what you are attempting to pull off will require a considerable amount of skill. But I guess I don't need to remind you because you seem aware of this already.

Ok so from what I can gather she's not being going out with this guy for very long, which is fantastic as it'll make your job much easier. Also one thing I'd like to point out is that you said you were gaming this girl for a week or so but she recently got a boyfriend regardless.

If she was attracted to you she wouldn't have gotten a boyfriend so my guess is that you didn't DHV or kino escalate enough. Now running a cocky/funny game with her over text is all well and good but it means nothing unless you see her face to face again. While text game has it's place there are soooo many things that you can do in person which is impossible to do over text.

So organise a date between you two as friends and at this point you're going to want to employ the Straw Man technique ( straw-man-technique-vt43374.html ). You can't openly talk shit about her boyfriend or else you'll alienate her and make yourself look like an asshole. If you want to make sure that she starts having second thoughts about her boyfriend then DLV or AMOG him the next time you see him. If you are the dominant one between you two then you'll be more sexually attractive to her than he will be. But remember, subtlety is key. I'm going to say that again. Subtlety. Is. Key. If she even THINKS that you are trying to break them up you can pretty much kiss your chances with her goodbye.

So keep in mind that this is a high risk game your playing man but the potential reward can be worth it in the end. It's all up to you whether or not you play.

Best of luck man. Keep us posted,

Spark Plug
I did it she likes me. She told me she likes me. I otld her if she didnt break up with her boyfriend by friday im done. I'm no second option and I'm not waiting. She said she understands. Good or bad?
Stupid. Why not be a second option for a while, who cares? Once you have sex with her, then you have the power, right now you don't.

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It went successful. She told me she wants to be with me. We're hanging out tomorrow. She broke up with her boyfriend for me. She says she really likes me. Checkmate.


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Seems a bit too easy to me, Maybe she was not close as you though she was with the boy friend. Yes I understand that no one wants to be in the position of 2nd I know that all too well.

Problem now lays with if it was that easy to get her to dump this guy how easy is it for her to do the same to you?


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Seems a bit too easy to me, Maybe she was not close as you though she was with the boy friend. Yes I understand that no one wants to be in the position of 2nd I know that all too well.

Problem now lays with if it was that easy to get her to dump this guy how easy is it for her to do the same to you?
I see where you're coming from Sando but keep in mind that she had only been going out with her "boyfriend" for barely a week. Not enough time had passed where she could become attracted to her boyfriend but that's not the main point here.

She was obviously attracted to ToxicRaps but she got a boyfriend anyway which means - in my opinion - two things.

Either she wasn't initally attracted to him but became attracted to him recently in which case it would be easy for her to break up with her boyfriend considering that they had only been together for a week or so.

Or the other (far more likely) meaning is that she felt attracted to Toxic's alpha persona from the very beginning but she felt as though a man like that may just friendzone her or go for other (more beautiful) women, after all as Toxic said "she isn't even a 9". She felt chemistry between them but also felt insecure about what Toxic would do so she got a boyfriend in the hopes of making herself seem like a challenge and motivating Toxic to seduce her. A plan which (as you can see) worked perfectly.

I know this sounds cynical but I'm speaking from firsthand experience here. That girl that you're with was probably gaming you just as much as you were gaming her.

Keep an eye on her man,

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Seems a bit too easy to me, Maybe she was not close as you though she was with the boy friend. Yes I understand that no one wants to be in the position of 2nd I know that all too well.

Problem now lays with if it was that easy to get her to dump this guy how easy is it for her to do the same to you?
I see where you're coming from Sando but keep in mind that she had only been going out with her "boyfriend" for barely a week. Not enough time had passed where she could become attracted to her boyfriend but that's not the main point here.

She was obviously attracted to ToxicRaps but she got a boyfriend anyway which means - in my opinion - two things.

Either she wasn't initally attracted to him but became attracted to him recently in which case it would be easy for her to break up with her boyfriend considering that they had only been together for a week or so.

Or the other (far more likely) meaning is that she felt attracted to Toxic's alpha persona from the very beginning but she felt as though a man like that may just friendzone her or go for other (more beautiful) women, after all as Toxic said "she isn't even a 9". She felt chemistry between them but also felt insecure about what Toxic would do so she got a boyfriend in the hopes of making herself seem like a challenge and motivating Toxic to seduce her. A plan which (as you can see) worked perfectly.

I know this sounds cynical but I'm speaking from firsthand experience here. That girl that you're with was probably gaming you just as much as you were gaming her.

Keep an eye on her man,

Spark Plug
Haha I understand. Ya she's actually quite the challenge even though she's mine now. We kissed yesterday when we hung out; at least 6 times. Thanks for the input. I really like this girl. Feels good to succeed.


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Gold example of Monkey branch theory in action.

Not all girls are happy, make sure your gf's are satisfied otherwise of people like toxic raps will swoop in your squirrel's vagina

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Gold example of Monkey branch theory in action.

Not all girls are happy, make sure your gf's are satisfied otherwise of people like toxic raps will swoop in your squirrel's vagina
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Titles says it all. I got her number thursday. I don't know why I'm so attracted to her she's not even a 9 but I can tell she's a nice girl. Some might say that sounds beta but I don't give a fuck, fuck yourself. Anyways I've been texting her over the weekend keeping up a c&f routine which she reacts well too. She's given me a few iois in person (I have class with her) like facing my directions, playing with her hair when talking to me. I asked her what 3 positive qualities describe her as Joshua Pellicer said to do in "Tao of Badass" to get her to qualify herself to me and see where I stand. Image

I cold read and said she seemed shy to which she agreed smiling. She only gave me two but she said she's shy but she's also a freak. (Fuck yeah) One sexual one emotional meaning she's attracted to me (According to tao of badass :x :) ) NOW. 3 days ago she got asked out by some guy (Keep in mind me and her met only like last week.) and I guess they're girlfriend and boyfriend now. Some might say move on, which i could easily do, but fuck that. I want to see the best of my abilities. I want to see if I'm capable of winning over the love of her from somebody else. Not just to be a douchebag, because I like her and as pua I want to test out whatever I can.

I've been gaming her very well but I've only been light on kino (I'll work on that next time i see her.)

But anyways guys, what do you think my next move should be? I'm gonna text her today as I didn't yesterday but I did friday and saturday and got good responses she was laughing yada yada yada.

Should I mention hanging out via text or in person? Phone call? She hasn't told me she has a boyfriend, she told her friend and I overheard. Just looking for your guys's advice and opinion on this. As I'm not exactly a professional.. BUT I can say I'm more advanced in this pua thing.
Can you update us on your progress with this girl?

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