It's no longer her cross to bear, it's yours.

It was likely difficult for her to admit those digressions to you, obviously at a LSE point in her life.

Ask yourself, would you rather find out now? or after you've possibly even married her?

Obviously there was nothing wrong with her in your mind before you knew.

All the over-thinking will not help you.

Two options.

1. Search your soul, forgive and keep her.

2. save your soul and dump her.

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Last time I will say it, Get the movie, "CHASING AMY." I know it sounds corny but it will at least give you some perspective and may cause you to reconsider doing anything rash.

i think you should breakup. and find a woman that did not have those.
and may be have more threesomes, that sounds kinda hot.
she will always find an excuse to what happened. and at a time she probably said to them, not now and when it happened, all of a sudden, this is how popular clowd rolled. lol and you will be surprised how you will believe those excuses.

So you want a girl that would have a threesome? But never would have?

A virgin that always went to church, but fucks like a whore?

A girl that has forsaken all cock, but loves yours.

You will sleep with and lust for a sexual and beautiful woman but will never respect her as "wife" material and will never marry her. In your eyes, she is tainted, slutty, impure, unworthy of the status of girlfriend, yet you may possess passionate and contradictory feelings for her. You may even be in love with her but will never allow yourself to be with her in any real sense.
you will look for a "good girl" to marry, usually a woman who is cold sexually but, for example, is good at "wifely" domestic things: cooking, cleaning, homemaking in general, etc. A proper, pure type woman who one day may bear his children. IF you can get her naked long enough to father a child.

Good luck.

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OP. I don't want to sound mean.

But leave this girl. She deserves better than you.

? No dude, I just don't want a girl that has been fucked by two dudes at the same time, multiple times. That's no accomplishment, all you need is two sufficiently horny guys and some lack of self respect.

Like I said her number isn't really the issue, I don't want a virgin, but I don't want an ex raging whore as a wife either.

I broke it off yesterday.

So, one dude out there knows her ass the chick who loves two dicks at the same time because he's done it three times? I could not have that on my mind. But that's me.

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when you put it like that, you did the right thing breaking it off, as the issue is in your value system.

personally id think it cool to have a girl like that (give her my number plz? k thx) but then again i feel the same way you do but about a different aspect of a girls history - one that you might see nothing wrong with.

value systems eh

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Good on ya in my opinion. Can still talk and be fuck buddies but you did the right thing. If something bothers you so much in a relationship there's zero point in staying in it. You just put yourself through all kinds of hell.

I was thinking the same thing when i was read this guys post. how funny.

Get over yourself you big pussy. If she'd had a threesome with two other girls you'd be grinning your head off. She's had more fun than you in the past and like a typical silly little boy you cannot handle it. So many dicks for her to suck and admire ... Mmmmm I bet she loved it!!! What woman wouldn't?? All those cocks to play with and the orgasms they had Fucking yeh baby!!!! You watch porn dont you? Well she was living the dream man. If you had 3 girls giving you a good going over you'd be grinning your head off. Why can't she? Because she's a woman? Only men can fuck 2/3 girls at a time? Is it because Ohhhhhh your poor little ego and male pride can't stand it because you 're DA MAN. If you'd had a great sex life like she had you'd be bragging about it so why can't she? Has your dick shrivelled up and won't come out because she's had good, hardcore, fucking great sex with other men? if so then get with a nun or something or grow a pair you big wuss. After you've fucked her there'll be others too. Dick head. Get over yourself. Women like sex before you and after you just like men. Be proud of her.

Here is my best solution for this problem:

1) become a muslim.
2) move to a muslim country.
3) marry a muslim girl.
4) get her to wear a burka and be strict about her only allowed to leave the house with you.
5) do not allow other men in your home.

just kidding of course, but seriously all you guys learning game, doing your best to learn as much you can about how girls think so you can bang 6 different girls each week, aiming for 3somes, etc. etc.

...by judging girls who are sexually active, you are subtly pushing them away from you.

1) all attractive girls are approached by many guys every day.
2) they will accept as many of these offers as they wish to.
3) you will do the same when your PUA skills allow.
4) acting butt hurt about this fact of life will only result in your being with girls who lie better.
5) see if you can figure out which girls are more likely to cheat on you successfully.

It happened to me while I was at stage 1 of PUA level.. with my 1st girlfriend. She had done more than me before we met, even though she was a virgin, and she felt the need to tell me after like 6 months of being together.... and having me believe she was 100% "pure"...

It was not much what she had done, looking back, but because I was not at the level of accepting it, it ate me away (this word has been used a lot on other posts here, and I can totally relate to it..) until the end of the relationship... So if you are not at the level of accepting that your serious gf (in which you will invest time and emotions...) had 3somes and banged almost 30 guys, let her go...

I think it is because we, men, are not made for "sacrifyzing" our life to just one girl (unless.. there are kids around). So when we do, she needs to be really really special, and one thing that implies in our culture is that she has to make you feel special about sex.. if she has done everything on the book with every other guy in town.. well...

Also, if you have it in you (promiscuity) I don t think that is something you can just switch off... I have had a girlfriend I deeply respected and loved... Yet.. from time to time... I felt the need to check something outthere... 28 is a lot for a young girl when you know life average for a woman is around 10 (prob. understated, ok, but..)

Fight the one-itis at the beginning while you can... There are many awesome woman outthere...

My 3 cents on it.

NB: was going to recommend that movie with Ben Affleck, "Chasing Amy", mentionned on another post, which I saw too when I was with my first gf.. don t think I agreed with the ending tho.

To be honest, it's not the fact that it happened, but the fact that she felt the need to tell you about it.

I started dating a girl once, things were going great for a few weeks, then she admitted she was a high-class call-girl and earned up to £2,000 a night from wealthy business men. She got involved in it when she was broke and had to pay off a student loan. But after the initial surprise, I realised it didn't really bother me. I thought, "the type of business guys who have to pay for sex are gonna be ugly mofo's with weak game and small dicks" and I also thought, i'm banging a hot HB10 chick for free while other guys pay £2000 to fuck her. This revelation also opened the door to threesomes and even foursomes on one occasion (the good type!!) and I was effectively free to fuck other women.

This revelation may not be as bad as you think. It could be a blessing in disguise. If she tells you about her promiscuous past, this probably means she is open minded sexually. Ask her about threesomes (the good type). If she went for the devil's threesome, she probably loves dick and anal. Use this to your advantage and bang her ass and slap her in the face with your dick.

It's 2013 guys. Relationships don't have to be girl/boy in love forever holding hands anymore. Spread your seed.

Good choice. You did what was right for YOU.