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 Post subject: Re: Small City Game?
PostPosted: Wed Sep 04, 2013 4:58 pm 
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Lol!! No. Those numbers represent the population of the respective city size as I meant to reference them in the post.
I know dude, I was talking about your intro post, a million was hyperbole... I am just saying I find it shocking that you slept with so many women yet you find it easier to get laid in small cities than big ones. That's all.

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 Post subject: Re: Small City Game?
PostPosted: Wed Sep 04, 2013 8:37 pm 
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Might just be that it works easier for me, but in bigger cities I feel like I have to put more effort out and almost go out of my way to hook up with hotter girls. Smaller towns move slower, there's less competition, and its much easier to climb the social ladder because social circles are more interconnected.

Hell, girls will just have their friends tell you they think you're hot and boom-deal is sealed.

Gossip is your best friend.

Best luck I've had in bigger cities has been in hotel bars when I was traveling for business. In big city popular bars women seem to have much bigger defenses put up.

In smaller cities, even if girls don't know you, they have probably heard of you if you have been there for any length of time. It makes her much more likely to want to hang out with you, and there's instant rapport.


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 05, 2013 3:30 am 
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Also...word gets around my city pretty well when your a guy like me whose out there playing the field...I find that a lot of the women I end up dating have friends who know me...or have been gamed by me...which ends up being a problem.


If you fuck these women proper, having a repuation as a playboy will only help you. When it comes to small town/city game it is wise to regard it with a highschool mentality. It's all about being popular, good looking, the new guy, the jock or the bad boy. If you are not percieved as one of these guys you will be limited in game. Even if you are one of these guys you will still be limited due to lack of talent( available women).

I live in a small-medium city(150k) but I have spent a lot of time gaming in small towns, I've learn alot over the years.

With the highschool mentality being considered, it's best to game in other small towns, even towns close to you. If you already have game, good grooming, fasion sense, style, confident posture and a cool look, it can be like shooting fish in a barrel.

Here's my theory behind this. With already having yourself straight, you can easily be percieved as one or a combination of the above desired men stacked on top of the new guy ( fresh meat)

The great thing about small towns is that even know the talent is limited, women will always work hard at looking good, they will always be competing with one another and there will more often then not be some attractive available women. But here's the thing, the guys in these towns are not focused on looking good, being more attractive and usually are years behind in fasion. If you walk into a small town bar with a big city look, women will automatically be drawn to you, it's just a matter of gaming them.

The key is to be different then the rest of your competition.

Word to the wise, don't do this alone, 2-3 friends is alway good. Men in these towns dont like guys coming in and stealing the women, so it's best to be prepared for potential drama.

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Also...word gets around my city pretty well when your a guy like me whose out there playing the field...I find that a lot of the women I end up dating have friends who know me...or have been gamed by me...which ends up being a problem.


If you fuck these women proper, having a repuation as a playboy will only help you. When it comes to small town/city game it is wise to regard it with a highschool mentality. It's all about being popular, good looking, the new guy, the jock or the bad boy. If you are not percieved as one of these guys you will be limited in game. Even if you are one of these guys you will still be limited due to lack of talent( available women).
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I live in a small-medium city(150k) but I have spent a lot of time gaming in small towns, I've learn alot over the years.

With the highschool mentality being considered, it's best to game in other small towns, even towns close to you. If you already have game, good grooming, fasion sense, style, confident posture and a cool look, it can be like shooting fish in a barrel.

Here's my theory behind this. With already having yourself straight, you can easily be percieved as one or a combination of the above desired men stacked on top of the new guy ( fresh meat)

The great thing about small towns is that even know the talent is limited, women will always work hard at looking good, they will always be competing with one another and there will more often then not be some attractive available women. But here's the thing, the guys in these towns are not focused on looking good, being more attractive and usually are years behind in fasion. If you walk into a small town bar with a big city look, women will automatically be drawn to you, it's just a matter of gaming them.

The key is to be different then the rest of your competition.

Word to the wise, don't do this alone, 2-3 friends is alway good. Men in these towns dont like guys coming in and stealing the women, so it's best to be prepared for potential drama.

This is spot on.

The easiest way I have found to establish myself in small-medium cities is to throw good house parties with lots of booze and invite lots of waitresses and hair stylists. When word gets out that you have the girls from hooters, twin peakes, and half the local salon gals coming to your place, its instant rockstar status and you have your pick.

And, there will be some fights so make sure you have your boys too.

obviously, kegs are a huge plus.

On a side note, I'm taking a smoke break from banging a salon gal right now(repeat). She's pretty sketch, but who cares its a weekday and she's not the one who cuts my hair. She has 2 kids....both illegitimate lol and she's a xanax junkie.


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 Post subject: Re: Small City Game?
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Real interesting. I was reasonably successful in smaller towns when I lived in them, and a lot with online dating, but when I moved to the big city... I mean .. it was out of control...

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 Post subject: Re: Small City Game?
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Real interesting. I was reasonably successful in smaller towns when I lived in them, and a lot with online dating, but when I moved to the big city... I mean .. it was out of control...
In my experience, big city game is abundant, especially day game but in all honestly, when it comes to night game( club/bars) I have much more success in smaller cities. The big city clubs here in toronto are packed with good looking people....Even know there is much more talent, there is also much more competition, everyone here dresses to the nine's. It's a lot harder to stand out. And I found that guys are not afraid to approach women in the big city. This generally leaves a sour taste in a lot of the available targets and tends to give them more of a bitch sheild.

I'm not arguing that one is better then the other, I've had lots of success in both but for me personally and for my style of game I've found much more success in smaller venues.( especually when I was starting out) Even when I have success in the big cities, it's usually women that are visiting from smaller surrounding cities, lol.

Big city game is good for pua's that already have their shit together. If you are just starting out but got your look together, i'd suggest to anyone to try out smaller town venues until you get really good.

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Real interesting. I was reasonably successful in smaller towns when I lived in them, and a lot with online dating, but when I moved to the big city... I mean .. it was out of control...
In my experience, big city game is abundant, especially day game but in all honestly, when it comes to night game( club/bars) I have much more success in smaller cities. The big city clubs here in toronto are packed with good looking people....Even know there is much more talent, there is also much more competition, everyone here dresses to the nine's. It's a lot harder to stand out. And I found that guys are not afraid to approach women in the big city. This generally leaves a sour taste in a lot of the available targets and tends to give them more of a bitch sheild.

I'm not arguing that one is better then the other, I've had lots of success in both but for me personally and for my style of game I've found much more success in smaller venues.( especually when I was starting out) Even when I have success in the big cities, it's usually women that are visiting from smaller surrounding cities, lol.

Big city game is good for pua's that already have their shit together. If you are just starting out but got your look together, i'd suggest to anyone to try out smaller town venues until you get really good.
Very interesting view.. I rarely ever day game, almost all night game or online game and I do well EVEN in nightclubs with tons of good looking people (and I am only 5'8" and hardly noticeable at a club). It is harder to stand out, but the sheer numbers help so much.

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 Post subject: Re: Small City Game?
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The small town gossip issue also puts a twist on things. If it gets around that you hooked up with a really slutty girl, hot girls will hesitate to hook up because they don't want everyone knowing they got the sluts seconds.

There's a serious difference in dynamics. Discretion is absolutely huge in smaller areas, where in big cities girls have more of a DGAF attitude.

I do agree with Fury on the numbers thing-if you are persistent and keep trying, you will get laid in big cities, and the best thing is that there will be no social consequences.

In smaller cities, if you have a good rep, you dont even have to try, and that's why I dig it. Of course when I'm out of town, bet your ass I'm going to get out there and put in work.


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