| Okay, so I went for drinks with this girl who was extremely into me. Not only when i saw her out, was she all over me, but even the text game was flawless and had no problems. But this one day, I agree'd to have drinks with her, when i was just in a shit mood in general. I actually got arrested a few days before, over a bullshit reason, and my head just wasn't in the right place that night.
Anyways, so we went out, everything was fine at first, except for the fact that I wasn't close to as social as I usually am. This is a girl who recently had ended a long term relationship because she wanted the ring, and her ex didn't. About halfway through drinks she started talking about all these guys who are constantly hitting on her, and even guys she had been going on dates with. I wasn't jealous or anything like that, but it was really annoying. We ran into some of her friends, who she started talking to for about 10 minutes, and I ran into some of my friends at the same time. After i finished talking to my friends, I went up to her and was like "hey, i'm going to get out of here. I'll talk to you soon" and basically ditched her.
Yes, it was kind of a dick move. But i was annoyed, it was a bad day, and plus she had friends there, so I didn't think it was a big deal. She texted me that night and said "I hope you didn't leave cause of me", which partially is true, because she kept talking about irritating shit. But i said "no, my head just isn't in the right place". She said "Kevin, i can tell when a guy isn't into me" and i told her i wanted to make it up to her... but to no response
I've tried hitting her up since, but she won't respond.
Is this a lost cause? Any advice? I have already apologized but not much else.
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