Really like a girl iv known for about a year, we went out alot as friends and there was some flirting but i did not see her in that way, as time passed i started too really like her and told her, she did not feel the same and i told her we can't be friends and have not spoke in over 3 months. She sent me a long happy birthday text two days after my birthday and now i am confused.

I cannot be friends with this girl because i love her. There was a time where i am 100% sure she had some sort of feelings towards me and a lot of drunken sexual flirting while out, and she would get jealous when i talk to other girls and would step in and pretend i was her boyfriend.

I replied to the text with a thank you, she replied "pleasure" to which i have ignored (i don't know how i should continue with this girl) I am very good with girls and have no problem with confidence or talking to girls, this is the first girl i have falling for and can't get her out of my head.

What are you trying to get out of it?

I don't want to waste my time does it look like i can salvage this and get her

This is called one-itis. You are obsessed with this one girl to the point where you are not thinking rationally. She clearly is not interested as she has stated. Your best bet is to move on. Do not contact her anymore, it will make it easier to forget about her. I do not think you can salvage this one. Sorry.

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You don't think the text is a way for her to re-initiate contact? Because we was very close and i am 100% certain she really liked me in the start, she made a friend of mine invite me out just so she can meet me, then she added me on Facebook and initiated contact. I think she may have been worried i would fuck her over. Just need some outsiders opinions before i make my decision to text her and start fresh or just let it be

Well, right now she does not appear to be interested, but she wants to be friends, wich may (or may not) give you a chance on the long run. If I was in your place, I would be cool with that. Cash, friends and ammo, you can always have more. By being friends you get close to her, and may be able to spark her interest, you may get to know some hot friends she may have, and you can introduce her to a hot babe you are dating and make her jealous. If it works out, you get a girlfriend, if it does not, you get a friend, wich is always a good thing to have. The question is: can you forget you obsession with her and play it cool? It's all in your head, man. Now think it over.

Thanks bro exactly what i needed to hear, ill have a think about it but sounds like a good idea