So here is the back story..

Long gaming I suppose is what it's called. I met this girl at the gym and talked to her in the past... Haven't seen her in awhile then saw her again at the gym and approached her with confidence. She remembered me and we chatted a bit. Talked about some stuff and got on the topic of studying for entry into grad school. Used that and number closed since she wanted to meet up and study some time.

Anyways, I was thinking... studying and grabbing a drink after to chat some more?
what would you guys do in order to not be in the friend/study zone and game her?

I'd really appreciate opinions, Thanks.
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Be clear in your intentions from the start that you want to DATE her. Don't say it outright, but I would not ask her if she wants to study. I would ask her if she wants to grab a drink.

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Create Rapport and Comfort.

You've got the ground work laid. You must always be escalating.

This involves getting more comfortable with each others touch, closeness, so touch escalation is the key here and comfort building.

Immediately establish touch. Offer your hand to LEAD her in the door, then place your hand on her lower back to lead her to your study area.

'Friend zone' her 1st, remind her, 'This is a study date, so please behave and keep your hands to yourself!'

'And I will try not to stare at your ass every time you cross the room!'

You can then, 1. Continue to escalate. 2. Bounce or isolate to another venue. or 3. Time bridge to a second day when you can hang out..

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Ah I see. So it's best to be playful and add a little bit of touching asap. The hand on the back guidance sounds good but most likely we'll be meeting up and studying.. if we're meeting at a table instead and she's already sitting down then what do you think are some ways I can get some touching in during studying?

Don't meet up and study. Make up some excuse last minute and try to just meet up for drinks. If you must meet up to study then it's tougher as being creepy won't make things happen. Play it cool, save obviously seductive kino for later when you are wrapping up and ask her if she wants to grab a drink with you

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Alright, i'll give that a try and see if she's up for drinks instead. I'm just hoping she doesn't ask why I'm available for drinks and not studying... then I wouldn't know what my excuse would be. Always need a reason to back something up.

Say you've been studying a bunch and kinda tired of it .. who cares.. you want to date her, right? Not help her study. I know you think you can sneak your way into her pants but honestly, that rarely ever works.

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She knows you want to bone her.

Scrap the indirect "I want to study" bollocks.

Otherwise you can't use the word "date" then can you?

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Alright, thanks a bunch Fury.. I'll give that a try then. It's been awhile since I last grabbed drinks with someone so this will be interesting

Haha and actually, she's the one that wanted to study.. I just pulled my phone out and told her to put her number in so we can get together. That being said, I wouldn't know for sure if she's down to chill or just down to study...

Lol you know if a girl suggest a coffee back at her place, you do know that means you will probably get more than a cup of coffee?

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This is easy....bring alcohol to her place when when u 'study.' Make sure you are beside each other on the couch looking at the same book. If she starts looking you in the face instead of the book go for it.


If it's not.moving along, turn quizzes into a drinking game.

Just like in junior high man!

Hahah yeah that's a no brainer. I'll probably just ask her if she wants to grab some coffee instead and hope for the best

NO. Don't do coffee. Coffee usually implies during the day which implies total waste of fucking time. Better to study together at night than coffee during the day.

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True, but bringing alcohol right away like that to a "study day" seems a bit too direct and out of place. I feel that would be way to blow it before it even start.

Like she'll be thinking, "what the hell is this guy doing...?"

I could be over thinking though.

Yeah we both implied that we study at night. So we won't be doing coffee. Hmm.. perhaps a drink at a bar instead and see where we go from there.