Hey guys was hoping to get some advice,views. I went to this local patio bar last night I am friends with pretty much all the wait staff. Anyway there's a really cute new waitress there we made eye contact I was gonna go talk to her, but she just finished her break and had to get back to work so I never got the chance. I don't know if her making eye contact was an ioi quite frankly I don't care I am gonna go back and talk to her and see what happens. My game is pretty tight, but a little outside advice never hurts either. Thanks!

Recently tried this and failed miserably. After eating I walked up to her(she wasn't our waitress) and asked her how she was) she looked at me like I was from outerspace. My advice is don't try to force the issue if it isn't there. When you go if she looks at you and smiles or anything like then I say go for it. If she doesn't look or show signs of interest then I would say pass because its an uphill climb. I guess you could continue to go hoping she was your waitress this would make the whole situation much easier. GOOD LUCK

I hear ya with it being an uphill battle. One thing I do have going for me is I have pretty hight value there I don't go all that often, but when I do I slap 5's with the waiters lightly hit on the waitresses and by the time I get to the bar they already have my drink made for me. If its full they always let me in anyway. A lot of times they don't charge for drinks either. I've gone out with one of the waitresses from there before, but I knew her from before and got to be really good friends with another so I am not just a creeper that's there hitting on the waitresses. As of lately I've changed my tune towards ioi's I don't wait for them to approach a girl I am mindful of them, but that's about it although I do try to make eye contact before I approach. My plan is to just walk in like I normally do talk to everyone basically own the place then when I see her just casually say hey what's up and go from there, but like I said before a little outside advice never hurts. Thanks for advice!

She's working, she doesn't want to risk losing her job yapping away to some randomer.

Approach, say you had to stop her and tell her she's pretty and then comment on something like her earrings(As i'm guessing they'll be different from everyone else who works there and wears earrings). Find something else to link to what makes her attractive. She'll be caught off guard and disarmed. Then just ask her name and work it from there. Keep it short and simple she won't be expecting any of it. Also, be c/f.