I met a korean girl on the 14th of august for language exchange. We started talking on facebook and quickly ended up meeting each other. She seemed to be really interested in me because she wanted to meet me really fast.

We started to meet a few days after we started talking, and then met almost everyday. On the first date she mentioned her boyfriend, he's 35 and she's 27. Quite fast she wanted me to go to her apartment and she wanted to come to mine too. I went to hers on the
2nd date and she came to mine on the 3rd. At the 5th date I talked about a long distance relationship I had with another girl and she brought sex to the conversation. I escalated it, she showed me her breasts after she asked me if I saw ones once in real life, then she asked me if I ever had sex and I said no. She got herself naked and we made love but after 5 minutes she stopped and said it was enough.

The day after this event, she started working full time at a restaurant and we had no time to meet. She had to start studying again and she said we could only meet on weekends, or start meeting each other again almost everyday on the 3rd of september. The day she went back home on the 5th date, we agreed we were only friends.

We kept talking and she called me when she finished her work. But on saturday for the first time she didn't talk to me and I told her I was anxious because she didn't talk (I wanted to say I was worried but I said it in korean and made a mistake). She didn't reply after that.

I think she's with her boyfriend since one year. Do you think she suddenly has remorse, that she feels guilty ? I don't know if I should talk to her to ask to meet her tomorrow, or if I should wait for her to talk to me. But I'm afraid she won't. I'm one of her closest french friends here and she should keep talking to me, even just for language exchange.

What kind of language exchange was that??!?

Usually I've been told that the girl gets attraction at first meet, but later it dies off. In your case, it could've been a fling.
Next time, you take the lead.

Hard Truth:

She wanted to get laid, and chose you to be the guy to fill that role.

You didn't sexually satisfy her, so she's going to move on to someone who can.

She was never in it for the relationship, dude. Also, congrats on losing your Vcard, I'm sorry it wasn't more awesome for you.

NEXT this girl, forget about her and go find some more.

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