| Pretty much just talk and vibe as much as you can, and she will eat out of your hand for a while, but you need to learn and pay attention to her signals. At a certain point she will start to reach out to you without physically touching you, because she wants to be touched. Research Kino, if you haven't. The idea is to touch her gradually more and more, but to leave spaces in touching when not necessary. Start off by tapping her shoulder to get her attention and show her something. Maybe next time place your hand on her back and guide her somewhere, then don't touch her again for a bit. Get her wondering "well, he touched me before, but not now.. what's wrong", then maybe find an excuse to brush her hair from her face and get a lot closer to her. Keep this energy of teasing going until you can see her begging for more inside of her own head. And when it comes time to pull the trigger for the kiss, just fuckin do it. Don't think. The most you should think is "now would be a good time to kiss her" and the minute that thought crosses your mind, you need to just put your body into motion. Rejection is a common part of the game, but I've never been rejected once the game has been in progress and the vibe has been set. The longer you hesitate, the more likely you are to choke, the worse the kiss will be when you do pull it off. That sense of fear and excitement is how you should feel, because that's what makes you alive, and odds are that's exactly how she is feeling as well.
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