I have some new balance running shoes that i always wear. they look like this:


someone told me these look lame and i should wear another kind of shoe. so what kind of shoes I get?

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Are you that typical American that wears a pair of ugly sneakers with every worthless piece of clothing he owns? If my guess is right, changing a pair of shoes won't help you.

At least try to clarify what clothes you wear and what style you have. You're not going to come out with Gucci loafers while wearing some loose-fit Wal-Mart jeans.

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my style is just casual, just a normal shirt and normal pants. very rarely I wear jeans, but I dont like them.

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If you're actually trying to get help, make your posts more detailed. Normal doesn't describe anything to anyone besides yourself. I feel like I'm talking to a 12 year old boy with the shoes of a 60 year old man.

I looked up your posts and found more info about you- took me all 40 seconds but you still could have wrote things out.

You're around 28, 5'5", shop (or shopped) at Ross, and I saw the two pictures you posted last year.

If you can't afford clothes other than Ross, shop at H&M. Your clothes were too big, styles were off-set. You wore big cargo pants with a big button-up shirt. You have a small stature which you're making ever smaller with baggy clothes. If you are still wearing the same things, wear boots. If you can though, get some pants that you can rock with any top, and then you can add a wider variety of shoes. I don't know any affordable clothing stores except for H&M and Macy's, but I haven't been in either in a few years. At least explain what you will be wearing. You can't wear a pair of sneakers with any set of clothes you have. Unless your last name is Gates and your first name is William.

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Pickwick got it spot on.

I typically see American tourists who wear similar clothes as this one here: http://autos.yahoo.com/blogs/motoramic/ ... 44996.html

The French, Canadian, Brits and Finns, I've met at work several years back dress more fashionably.

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wow, how did you find all that information about me. yeah, I dont know anything about fashion and i dont know how to dress myself. no wonder no girl wants to talk to me.
I have been to H&M and as soon as I enter any clothing store, I get confused and want to leave. there is so much shit and I hate shopping.
another problem is I guess a language barrier? I dont understand a lot of terms when it comes to clothing. like people say wear xyz and I dont know what the term means.
so perhaps someone could show me some pictures of things that would look good on me?

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LOL Perfect example of what most American guys dress like. OP if the guys in that link are what you consider to yourself as "normal" (which based on your choice of shoes, that's how you dress) a new pair of kicks won't help you bro. You need a full out fashion make over.

Show us a sample bro of what you wear or better yet link us to some pictures of you. We're not so good like Pickwick in digging up your older posts.

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Bartm- it's pretty simple. In this 21st century that we live in.

When ever you struggle with something in life these days, just like you probably did when finding this forum...you just type into google "how to dress sexy?" That what google does, it's search algorithm then sends out spider like finders that scan those key words and present them in an order of most popular link such as:

Blogs:
http://www.fashionbeans.com/2008/mens-style-tips-1/.

Or

Vlogs:
http://youtu.be/xOgRGYFHfKE

I'm sure there are products out there that you can pay for. Or you can pay a stylist to help you. Pretty expensive but you will look good fast.

We are so lucky in this day of age where we live in the information age.

My reccomendation is to learn the information yourself, the info is out there! FOR FREE! Nobody had this 15 years ago!, take advantage of this luxury! you need to invest time into your education, you have to make it a hobby. I used to dress horribly till I got to the community and I saw girls open my friend who had excellent style and saw the power of it.

Old me (loud shirt that was too big, Baggie jeans and square nosed shoes= bad) (still better than USA style )


New me (simple shirt, tailored to fit, jeans tailored too, and some nice looking loafers=good (I get compliments and IOI's)


Some pit falls that most people fall into in PUA:
- they are too cheap and buy low quality.
- they dress stupid like peacocks and stick out for the wrong reasons.
- perception is reality, a lot of people think they dress good when in fact they don't.
- comfort zones, I have never seen so many people panic because I am making them try on slim fit jeans and they freak out thinking they will look like Russell Brand or something.
- they don't ask their friend's who dress well for help.
- they don't ask the people who work in the shop that are there to help.
- they stick to fashion rather than style, so actually spend more money on the latest trends. Rather than just have a good time-less style.
- they are worried that their friends will make jokes of their new look (if girls compliment you and your friends call you gay, that means you have your style perfect, let your friends stagnate in their ways, you will have the last laugh.)
- they never change their haircut. Get a hair consultation, get someone to work out of your face shape and they will think of a look that will suit your style and face shape. Look up your fav celebs and find some cool hair styles, don't blend in.

The great thing about style is , it makes a massive advantage when you get it right in terms of picking up girls, the best thing about it...you can master this in a few hours of studying and one weekend of shopping. I've turned my friend(s) from a 3/10 to 7/10 in just a few hours. Massive result change on their love lives. This in turn gets more IOI's in real life and even on online dating pics, there are no down sides.

Some cool styles I like;

these twins are local club promoters, they dress amazing and get laid like rockstar's





simple smart casual.

David gandy, the master at style.



I know some of you will think some of these pics look gay, but which proves my point I mentioned that some people are stuck in their ways and comfort Zones. Hopefully these people will present examples how they look in turn.

Pebble.

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Check out katalyst clothing they have some pretty modern peacocking designs