Hi hi!

I've gone out with this girl, like just the two of us, quite a bit over the last two months or so (like 6 times), to the point where I think I've built enough comfort. She was quite a closed person and was never really comfortable with touching, but she doesn't mind very much anymore, I haven't been able to do things like wrap my arm around her waist yet because I'm way too awkward a guy to pull stuff like that off naturally. We're college students! (both 17)

We're both really flirty with each other, and I'm pretty sure she's knows I want her, which is pretty good. It kind of already feels as if we're in a relationship, cause we ask each other out pretty often, I've paid for a lot of our meals, I give her stuff, etc, etc- but how do I go about making her my girlfriend and building a LTR?

I have a study session with her soon and I'm not really sure how to escalate from here, hoping to build a LTR, but I feel like we're doing the same stuff every time, laughing, flirting, a bit of touching, and that's about it. I honestly don't think we can pull off a kiss, she's kind of traditional that way and a bit awkward and shy as well.

Thanks!

If you are really studying, I wouldn't escalate. One thing that I see people do that screws themselves in life is that they mix fun and work together. This happens a LOT in the AFC world. I'm a bartender, and although I do flirt, I don't use pickup on my customers or coworkers. If you are in a study date, keep your eyes on the books.

I just re-read your post, and just noticed this right now. This is a BIG NO-NO in the pickup world. Don't buy her anything until she does something to deserve it. This makes you seem like a chaser and a guy with very few options when it comes to girls. Alpha males don't chase; buying girls things puts you in a "provider frame" and makes you seem very beta

Ask her on a date to the beach or even a nice hike, you dont exactly need to spend money to show her a good time, dont buy her stuff, make you look needy, if you want to ask her to be your gf, i recommend you take her to thr beach, have a good time, kino, make out, ger her in the water, make out some more and just go balls out and ask her to.be your gf, if you keep dragging it on yourgonna get thrown in the friend zone, especially since yiu have yet to f close