Hey guys, I sarged this girl a week ago and we've been going out since then.

Last night she wanted to play spin the bottle at a party at her house, but no-one heard her (I did, but acted like I didn't). Tonight, she suggested it again at her house (we were about 5 people).

Now I wanna ask: Why would she wanna play that while we are going out? Does she not like me that much (cause I really thought she did)? She wouldn't wanna play this if she was happy with me, right?

It's hell watching my chick make out with other guys, so should I tell her to fucking stop? I don't really wanna play spin the bottle if I go out with someone.
Any advice guys?

I think that if she wants to play to spin the bottle let her do it...you should sit right in front of her and the bottle always gonna point directly to you . Thats just my opinion.

let her play it. watch her. dude, a week...she's not your girl. maybe she wants to make out with other guys...let her do it, dump her if she does.

sometimes you have to be more alpha and act like you don't care, don't act all needy and clingy with her, let her do her crap.

good luck, and dump her if she is a ho.

jack i agree wit
dorian let her do it and
if it bugs you kick her to the curb
or better yet go mack with another chick
if shes mackin wit another guy seems fair
to me

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all's fair..... stick your tongue down some other girl's throat just as quickly....

and if you really want to throw a hard NEG at her.... if its ever your turn and the bottle lands on "your girl", then grab the bottle and point it at some other hot girl in the circle... that'll knock her for a loop.

P.S.-- do people still play that game, anyway?

No guys we are officially going out (I'm in high school). She asks DJ's at parties to put up songs and then tells everyone "this song expresses how I feel about Jack". She tells everyone I'm her boyfriend.

But that's not important anymore, because I went over my standards for a girlfriend. One of them is obviously, she must not want to make out with other guys while she's my girlfriend.

So I'm gonna tell her that. That until she meets those standards, she's not my girlfriend and I'm free to date, kiss and fuck whoever I want.

I'm adopting the scarcity mindset and need to get rid of it as quickly as possible. This is the way.

Why would you put limits on a girl like that.
The way I see it if a girl wants to get committed to you, like a serious one she'll let you know, however before you guys are you are a free man.

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OMG??? Dude play the game. Kiss the other girls and do it with the upmost disregard. Next time push the game first, and try your best to be the one having the most fun of it. Kissing is meaningless, kissing is worthless. I suggest you look at the peole lips around you first, because kissing can be dangerous around girls that are known to suck dick. You don't want to catch herpes.

Sounds to me like shes trying to make you jealous and see how you'll react. Girls are always testing this shit seeing if they can make you jealous. My advice don't let it, your GF may be hot and you get jealous when she makes out with another guy but when it's your turn to spin the bottle and are making out with another girl I bet that she doesn't really like it either. Or if she does get off on you making out with another girl infront of her then you are one lucky guy!!! 3 some FTW!

Your in high school bud don't get locked down by 1 woman so early. There are millions of girls out there gotta collect them all if u get my drift!

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shes pushing her boundaries. dont take that shit. let her know that it wont stand and if she gives you crap about it then end it.

Hey Bro,

If I were in your shoes, play the damn game. As long as you hit the fundamentals, you're game is sold. What I'm saying is sure, she can play spin the bottle, but as long as your game involves DHVs and negs (if she's acting all arrogant), then things are gonna work out in your favor.

Essentially, what I'm saying is that the Venusian Arts aren't developed to fit EVERY situation, but that's when you have to go back to the basics and apply what you know works. DHVs work. Negs work IF the girl thinks she's all that. If a girl perceives you have higher value than her, she will be attracted to you, regardless of what game you play.

Respectfully,

M

SLUT: lets play spin the bottle.
PUA: hell yeah, STD trading is so hot right now.


SLUT: lets play spin the bottle.
PUA: what are you 13?


SLUT: lets play spin the bottle.
PUA: ...lets play NUDE spin the bottle.


SLUT: lets play spin the bottle.
PUA: how about u spin my dick...wtf..i thought we had something ya know? you wanna kiss a bunch of guys thats cool with me. enjoy your herpies. *leave party*

I personally would dump this chick just for saying she wanted to play spin the bottle. I dont think I've played that since I was about 11-12. This girl seems kinda eager to make out w/ other guys in front of you and piss you off. Seems kinda skeezer-ish to me. Then again, I've never been the type for wild, party girls (which this sounds like to me). Also, it seems she has a little maturing to do. I think it is a tad childish for a girl to go around telling all of her friends that a song reminds her of you.

I would ask her why she is so eager to play spin the bottle in the first place. If considers herself your GF, she probably shouldnt do that. That would be like me asking my GF, "Um, is it OK if I make out with your hot friends?".

seems to me she is fairly open minded and is the one being alfa in the relationship. If she likes to play spin the bottle and you don't you should be out of there. however if you get to kiss a bunch of other girls to what is the problem, this could lead to many other entertaining things. next time the bottle goes to a girl after your girl has spun it make them kiss, or if it goes between two girls and you spun you get to do a three way kiss (good times). I have heard of spin the bottle getting so involved it has turned in to orgies, or threesomes all which are good times. If this is not your thing then bail but keep in mind you are all in the experimental stage, might as well do it now and have fun with it than find out later that your wife wants to do it when your married.

The only person that can answer your question is YOU!
Everyone else is giving you there opinion on what they would do. You need to do what you want.

If her playing spin the bottle pisses you off... fucking tell her... she wants someone to follow and you need to be the prize. You need to tell her straight up and say I'm done with your childish I'm going to play 5th grade spin the bottle games....Try it again and we are done.
If you are looking for a relationship thats solid then do this.

If you are looking for a non commited slut then play two can play the same game. But what I got from your post is that you care for this girl. And if you want to punish her after she does it it freeze her out the rest of the party and flirt with other girls.

But do what you got to do to make her the way you want her to be. If she doesn't want to change its time to find someone else because all she is going to be is a waste of time and there so many other girls out there.

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