So I'm pretty good at flirting, getting numbers, going on dates, etc.

Not perfect, but definitely decent.

My problem is closing without having been on a date.

I'm a bad closer.

I've got this girl now - she's not one I'd ever consider dating, but she's:

A) hot

B) super down to fuck

c) incredibly slutty


She wanted to fuck me last night, but she's into a lot of dominance and my texting was not super dominant last night - she texts me at midnight saying she got done dropping her drunk friend off. Should have been like, "Where are you?" and made it happen.

I texted her today with "What are you doing tonight?"

She told me ladies night (drink special thing) at blah blah cowboy bar. Dusting off my cowboy boots!!

How should I get myself involved in that? I was thinking of saying that she should invite me, I'd like to pick up where we left off last night.

The bigger question is - how do I text more dominantly?

"Save a Cowboy-ride ME!"

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

My problem with this is that while we started talking about sexual stuff, it was all more "Oh, you're into that?" "Oh, I'm into that too" - I didn't move it up to the level of actually making a fantasy in her head (yeah, stupid, I know). That's why the "Let's start where we left off" seemed appropriate to me.

She knows I want to fuck her, and she's obviously down for it. Considering her high number, it doesn't seem difficult at all to get in her pants. She seems to enjoy fucking lots of different men, and she likes the sex that I'm into. So it should be an easy sell, I'm just not sure how to setup blatantly sexual situations immediately. While I've fucked something like 25-30 girls, only like maybe 4 have been single night lays, and most of those internet meetings.

Just add "Stop by later"

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I was thinking:

"I should come. We have unfinished business."

You said she wanted to fuck you last night...? Seems like a key piece of information. Did she say she wanted to fuck or is she just the type who'd jump your dick or what?

If she likes a dominant man how do you think you should be? You need to be firm, not give her a choice and tell her to do things. Keep in mind when you tell her to do things there has to be something in it for her. You can't just say shit like "Come over to mine and we'll sit down and talk." or "Do my washing." It has to be interesting. You've gotta give her reason to come over and if she's a raging sex addict... Well tell her to come over and say you have this amazing porno you want to show her. Obviously say this next time you're both talking about sex. You can always joke if she takes it the wrong way.

Just about ANYTHING suggestive. It needs to be clearly suggestive. But here's the thing, ladies night with the 'gal pals'. Interruptions not always welcome. From Sluts, girl friends, wife's, and just single women. This is the night they get together for their attention fix, not usually their Hook Up fix. BUT after the gaggle breaks up...all fair game.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

We started talking about amount of sex partners, I made it clear I was non-judgmental on sex, and I talked about how I liked rough aggressive sex, and she was pretty much like "Oh, me too." and she went on about how she had a vibrating tongue ring and it was amazing and how I should really experience it.

She was about to leave and I was like, "Oh, we're going to become GOOD friends I can tell." and she was definitely on board. Sexual vibe was very much hinted at. It sounds like she wants to be FWBs, and it sounds like the last guy she hung out with was not that great (three kids, sounded lame) and I'm probably "classy" to her.

I'm not really fleshing out the extent and how sexual the conversation became without us actually saying, "Oh, we're going to fuck". If we had been in a sex location, it would have been time to make out and escalate - that's how heavy the vibe was.

And her number is 3x mine, and I have a pretty high number. So she's pretty damn likely to put out.

Do you think my "unfinished business" line works? It's pretty suggestive. She knows what's up. At worst she'll give me a, "not tonight", I think. She's pretty hot on me.

She texted me last night literally after dropping her friend off, with, "Hey Darling" (she's from Texas)

It sounds like you're just joking around and being friendly. Back it up with something. Say you've unfinished business but you're going to take advantage of the quiet night or some bullshit like that. Just let her know where you are so when she's feeling kinky she'll come to you. Of course, she could have other guys like you said... So get into another sexually charged conversation before she goes out and then break away when it gets very hot and heavy and she gets suggestive. Say something like you've gotta do something and you'll text her later on.

If you do this you have an excuse to text her later on in the night without feeling needy and, of course, she'll be hammered so you can be flirty while she's out and start talking about sex. She'll start linking sex and you together and next thing you know she'll be ditching her friends to go back to yours.

What? Why would I just let her come to me? That sounds like a low probability of success action.

It seems like it would be better to follow up and hang out with her and escalate in person ASAP.

I want to point out - I have no idea if she's even going to be hanging out with women at all. It's just Ladies Night at that particular bar, i.e. cheap drinks for women.

She might mean it in both senses of the word or she might just mean she is taking advantage of drink specials.

you gotta start SOMEWHERE, from your description, I think "DTF?" would work just fine. Be BOLD, make a statement, and back it up.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I just said we had unfinished business.

She's like, "O rly, what's that? lol"

Now I'm just assuming I go super sexual.

Went super sexual, got "that's not an option darlin"