When you're still at the not quite established interest/attraction phase but it's kind of in the balance (if you follow me).... Friendzoning? Shit test? What? And how to handle this when you're into the girl... Opinions please guys.

What's the question

It sucks. Best thing here is to not act defensive/fazed. but yea, if it's not your girlfriend or something commenting on some guy your odds are pretty low though not always, sometimes if she can't get that guy or whatever you can still take it down by taking advantage of her aroused state thinking about the hot guy...

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Well what's the best way to respond to this if you wanna get with her? I mean you don't wanna go down the needy/insecure route of showing it fazes you but at the same time, is it a blatant blow-out/time to move on and forget her?

This ^^^

Don't let it bother you. Be completely unreactive.

Here's the thing though man... Attraction starts to happen pretty quick. If you are already at a point in an interaction where a girl is talking about other guys she finds attractive, you already are in the friendzone broski.

Who can say what the truth is?

The truth is that the truth depends on your interpretation of it.

So what belief is going to bring you the highest odds of success?

That you're friendzoned? Probably not.

That she's testing you? Maybe. If so, don't cave.

That she's some dumb chick without manners, who's attracted to you but has nothing better to talk about? I don't know. But if you believe that, you can probably assume she's going to switch to another topic soon. And if you let her switch topics, or change it for her, then continue gaming as usual...well, there are your highest odds of success right there.

I've banged lots of girls after they've talked about other guys. I don't care. And by not caring or reacting, it moves me up a notch on their Guy Ladder. If I'm going to get laid, I know I have the best chance of doing so by genuinely not caring.

Hell, I've banged girls after giving them relationship advice for how to handle other guys.

It means as much as you want it to.

Chick: "That guy's so hot!"
You: "Totally! I wonder if he'd be up for a threesome with you and I. Have you ever done that, like any kind of group sex?"

Holy shit, now you're in Sex Talk AND you've passed it (if it WAS a test).

You win.

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