I met a girl in a club while she was working (walking around the floor selling drinks). She approached me to ask if i wanted to buy (which i didnt) and she ended up talking to me nearly the entire night instead of working. At the end of the night when the club closed i quickly asked her number.
A few days later i arranged a date to go for a drink. She seemed like a really awesome girl, really nice, into video games, etc. I really felt like we had alot in common. We spend the entire evening and night drinking, dancing and making out. At the end of the night she told me i couldnt come home with her on the first date (i personally dont live close). And i acted like it was no big deal.
About a week and a half later (she went on a midweek vacation) i asked her to come over to my place to barbeque and play racing games (she bragged about it on our date and we said we should play some times). We have tons of fun the entire night, drinking beers, making out all the time, lying in eachothers arms going cozy on the couch while playing video games.. Eventually i invite her to stay over for the night (during a fairly passionate make out session) but she refuses and she leaves to catch her train shortly after.
The day after she sends me a text saying that i am a really nice guys "in theory" but that her feeling says otherwise, and that she is looking for a guy who does give her a good feel.

Seriously what the hell..? Am i too boring? Maybe i was too attached (by going so cozy etc..?)

Well, you're on pick up forums... I'd say her feelings are quite accurate. Haha.

Just move on, say you respect her feelings, you're sorry it didn't work out and you'd like to be friends. It'll drive her nuts and more importantly it means you can go back to that club and not feel like a stalker. When you're at the club you can chat up women or just generally raise your value anyway.

It sounds like a shit test so plough through it and don't be needy. It could also be that you failed to escalate? You said all you did was make out and play games... Sounds kinda lackluster in my opinion. You should have at least escalated to some heavy patting at the bare minimum and made it very sexual(Play with her tits, rub her thighs, grab her by the waist and make her put her hands up around your neck -- This gives you free reign to caress her body with no obstruction and it comes off as natural and unintimidating, just purely sexual). Women expect to get hands on just as much as guys do especially if they're coming over to yours for the day.

Remember: Women want to sleep with you, they just don't want to come across as sluts. Basically you have to be sneaky and progressive. Barriers will go up but you just gotta keep breaking them. One of the times you should stop is literally when everything they say and do is screaming "I really don't want this!" If you're kissing her, she's moving her body and keeps kissing back she wants more... She might say it's too soon or she's nervous or something so you just come back to it. Don't try to verbally convince her, try to let it naturally flow towards your bedroom.

Best way to escalate is to force her to get physical with you... Kiss her, lips locked, put her hands behind your head and yours on her waist then caress her ass and her sides then start to move her closer to you and onto your lap. She'll feel you hard and react to it. It's only natural for her to start getting carried away and before you know it her tits are out, you're sucking on them and she's grinding your leg panting and begging for a piece of you. You've no idea how many women i've had like that who just turned around with a heavy breath and said "I can't do this" but proceeded to take off their top and belt. Usually they'll start off by taking your pants off to see the goods. Heh.

She may have a boyfriend dude..

But if you over think this she won't comeback.. Put this behind you and I'm sure she'll contact you when you least expect it. Chicks have this 6th for when you're not longer thinking about them.

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Agree with first responder. Don't let it bother you and remain friends, she must be pretty cool if she actually tells you she's just not feeling it rather than just not respond or slowly faze you out which must girls do. Remain friends and just act cool when you see her again. GOOD LUCK

agree with Joey,

she might have a boyfriend or someone else she has already invested in. Just keep it cool and dont let it bother you, hit her up from time to time. By what she is saying, she into to you but she is not willing to invest right at this moment.

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