one thing i have learnt from the community is that being a nice guy will take you nowhere..not even with men...so i experimented with being a complete asshole..i have noticed that attitude succeeds with average looking low self esteem girls, the ladies of fine qualities like the strong but good men but some puas still insist that being a bad boy is the only way..now i have a curious case, there is an HB 8 i met two years ago....she broke up with a big time player..he broke her heart they said.now this girl has shut off completely.she is no longer playing the field due to the heartbreak she suffered before.so how do you deal with such a girl? a girl who got burnt by a bad boy..do you still use the asshole approach since she is just a woman also or there is another way?

It's possible to be neither of the two extremes (AFC, asshole).

which is the better arsehole, nice guy or none? coz i hav seen with some girls you just have to be a complete arsehole.

theres another, I call him the danny tanner (tall gus usually get away with this)

hes extremely huggy, direct, and always asks do you have a boyfriend, but talks to everyone and says whatever comes to his mind

watching this guy, ive noticed its his light kino arm hugs, he even says " I need a hug" then doesn't even hit on them

majority of the time... she will end up with another asshole. bad boy type. Why? cause she attracted to these types. Either she wise up and find that nice boy (usually later in life when they are ready to settle down and done playing the field) and marry him. May i ask how old is this girl?

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20 years.

20? she definietly gonna hook up with the same type, obvious to young to get married( most of the time) in time when her wounds heal, she will be on the prowl again. the questions of which is better is determine by the girl that is which is better for her, You just got to do what you do, become who you want to become. dont go changing for a girl and become something you are not, or dont want to become.

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"Live life to the fullest, never look back, remember No regrets" J.f