one thing i have learnt from the community is that being a nice guy will take you nowhere..not even with men...so i experimented with being a complete asshole..i have noticed that attitude succeeds with average looking low self esteem girls, the ladies of fine qualities like the strong but good men but some puas still insist that being a bad boy is the only way..now i have a curious case, there is an HB 8 i met two years ago....she broke up with a big time player..he broke her heart they said.now this girl has shut off completely.she is no longer playing the field due to the heartbreak she suffered before.so how do you deal with such a girl? a girl who got burnt by a bad boy..do you still use the asshole approach since she is just a woman also or there is another way?

I've got a situation like this too so looking forward to some answers guys.

Lots of comfort has to be involved I'm sure!

I actually go for "honest asshole". I'm honest, but I'm not going to compromise on what I'm looking for or what kind of behavior I will tolerate from a girl. When girls say they want "bad boys", they really mean that they want a guy who's 1) good (i.e. dominant) in bed, 2) not clingy / needy, and 3) not going to cave to shit tests and betaization attempts.

-Wolf

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She has to heal, but at the end of the day what attracted her at first is what will always attract her. If you want to swoop in and be her buddy patiently waiting for the opportunity to strike you will not be successful, because this isn't genuine.

A lot of guys misconstrue the whole " asshole " approach; so yes being an "asshole" does not working on quality women.

The guys that gets a woman is a genuine guy, confident in his sexual abilities to attract the opposite sex. I am always nice to girls, and they love it. But that doesn't mean i'm not hitting on them, flirting with and making sexual moves all of the time.

The guy that attracts women is a "sexy", sexual, and genuine guy. Its not about being nice, its all about being genuine. Nice guys are nice because they think they'll be rewarded because of it and thats wrong. A genuine is do what feels genuine to him without expectation - that's the difference.

Now about the girl: If you genuinely care about her, you will understand that after a recent break up she needs time to heal and be with her self before jumping into something with someone else. It could take months of even years for this time happen. So my advice is to leave her alone unless you genuinely want to be there to help her heal; and if so, understand that you will only ever be considered a friend.

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She has to heal, but at the end of the day what attracted her at first is what will always attract her. If you want to swoop in and be her buddy patiently waiting for the opportunity to strike you will not be successful, because this isn't genuine.

A lot of guys misconstrue the whole " asshole " approach; so yes being an "asshole" does not working on quality women.

The guys that gets a woman is a genuine guy, confident in his sexual abilities to attract the opposite sex. I am always nice to girls, and they love it. But that doesn't mean i'm not hitting on them, flirting with and making sexual moves all of the time.

The guy that attracts women is a "sexy", sexual, and genuine guy. Its not about being nice, its all about being genuine. Nice guys are nice because they think they'll be rewarded because of it and thats wrong. A genuine is do what feels genuine to him without expectation - that's the difference.

Now about the girl: If you genuinely care about her, you will understand that after a recent break up she needs time to heal and be with her self before jumping into something with someone else. It could take months of even years for this time happen. So my advice is to leave her alone unless you genuinely want to be there to help her heal; and if so, understand that you will only ever be considered a friend.

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so wolf you approach a broken girl the same way you will approach one who was'nt? i do not think a heart broken girl would respond well to asshole game but anyway that is my opinion.

First, I don't actually act like an asshole. I just tell girls that I'm an asshole and then act like a confident guy with no outcome dependency. Second, if you treat a broken girl like she's broken.. then she'll keep acting like she's broken. If you treat a broken girl like she's any other girl, then she'll start acting like one.

We lead, they follow.

/Field-tested

-Wolf

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I agree totally with this. I'm playing long game with a hb9+ I met in June. She had some issues however I haven't treated her like she has any issues. If she brings them up, I roll into a different frame - usually something funny to.keep the energy up. Only last night did I let her open up, mainly because I was curious about some things about her. She's a hard.nut to crack, been out with her like 6 times and haven't even kissed closed yet, and she still wants more of me!

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