Just wondering, to keep a girl, do you need to be good in bed? will she cheat on you if you are not?
also, is there any guide to be good in bed?

thank you

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yes to everything you asked lol

seduction is an advertisement

your ability to perform in bed is the product

the quality of the product is very important

Answer is yes to all of ur questions. Will u stay with a girl that isnt satisfying your sexual needs? Will you cheat on a girl that isnt satisfying your sexual needs?

You could try reading some books like "Secrets of a Supersexpert - Tracey Cox" or watch some tutorial video's on porno websites. They can generally be found under the "instructional" section.

Just make sure when you try something new with a girl you tell her "I want to try something new, want to help me explore?" or something along those lines.

Actually, the answer is DEFINITELY no. Being good in bed is much more important for keeping a woman/relationship than for seducing a woman or even keeping a woman around for a few weeks for sex.

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Not just being a PUA, but as a MAN, you better be good in bed, Don't shame us good ones!

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Sex God Method is a good staple in the PUA community on the topic of getting good in bed. Two additional great but newer programs are "2 Girls Teach Sex" and "Female Mind Mastery." You can check out my review for FMM in the Reviews board on this forum.
The answer is actually definitely yes because being great in bed gives you real sexual confidence that women can smell from a mile away. If you don't have real sexual confidence - the genuine kind that comes from actually being able to make women cum hard - you'll be seducing with a handicap.

Ok. Look. Obviously being good in bed is IMPORTANT and you SHOULD STRIVE to be good in bed. But the answer to the question of whether you HAVE to be good in bed (i.e. it is a REQUIREMENT) to get women is simply bullshit. Women are programmed to become attached after sex, EVEN when it is bad. I've had good sex, great sex, and bad sex, and the correlation between sex quality and the opportunity to see a woman again was ALMOST NONEXISTENT.

I hear your point about sexual confidence etc and I do agree with it to an extent but for the following reason: I think why men lack confidence is more because they THINK that if they don't deliver in bed they will lose out on the girl forever which makes them lack confidence and not go for it etc. And that is simply UNTRUE.

So, bottom line, is it good to be good in bed? Yes. Should you strive to be good in bed. Yes. Does it help? YES. But, is it a NECESSITY to succeed with women? For pick up purpose? No. For relationship and longer term issues, yes, it is quite important.

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Ok yes, missed the to "keep a girl", focused on the subject.

Yes, to keep her long term, being good in bed will help a lot. To see her a few times, it does not matter much at all.

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thank you for your post. I think you have a good point. Women love great sex, but more importantly, they need a confident and strong man!

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Great sex is vitally important to a successful relationship. If you had sex with a girl and she was just completely horrible would you continue to have sex with her? It just wouldn't make sense. I believe that all men should strive to become better in bed because it just has a lot of positive effects on your interactions with women. They practically want to give you anything and everything.

Theres lots of information all around the internet on becoming better in bed, but a great place to start is just to working on controlling your ejaculation.

The Kegel muscles are the muscles that let fluid of out you flag pole and by exercising your Kegels you will be able to stop your self from ejaculating too soon.

Google: Kegel Exercises - you're basically just pinching the muscles that you use to stop yourself from peeing.

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I am so insecure about this particular issue and I won't even believe the good signs I see with my girl lol. She keeps coming back for more, says the sex is always good and it NEVER gets boring with me like her past lovers...but she has a tough time finishing and only has a few times her whole life with a guy (a time or two with me). I've been upping my sex game by leaps and bounds recently with fingers and such and getting better results.

but as joey said: why the hell would she keep coming back for more and still be around me a year later if she was lying to me? she is friggin hot and guys hit on her all the time

special shout out to hellhound!

Because girls are not guys. Sex is not the biggest thing for a woman in a relationship. Plenty of women will stay with a guy even if the sex is bad. Not saying you should suck in bed, but it isn't anywhere close to the be all and end all for a woman.

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