i hate loud nightclubs, but my friends always go there. How do you open a set in a loud environment, especially when they are dancing? The only ones I've seen and used are:

"You ladies look like you know where the party is at!" (very high energy)
"What's the celebration about?"
"now, THAT'S how you dance!"

Loud Club= Loud Opener

So just change the volume? The openers are the same?

Yes, when I first went to the clubs girls could barely hear me talk, then I practiced speaking very loudly, and they were much more responsive. Girls love a guy with a loud voice, it's your delivery, not what you say. Speak loudly, and project your voice downward, not upward.

Yes, the only difference between a nightclub and the rest is you have a chance to dance and escalate faster.

I have opened several times successfully at loud nightclubs.

First of all and most important, make your voice louder. Don't scream and watch out for spitting since it drives girls straight away.

Second, maintain eye contact. Don't lean on her ear to listen to what she says because this is considered as a sign of weakness.

Third and most important, try to isolate her into a lower sound area. You can do this as soon as you get her approval for moving (meaning when you have built enough rapport)

What the fuck guys, why are you trying to have conversations in loud places?

Loud places = non verbal game.

what is non verbal game?
• eye contact.
• physical openers (high 5 spin , dance)
• body language.
• close proximity.
• facial expressions ( I wanna fuck you so bad face)

Stop concentrating on verbal so much. Take it with a pinch of salt.

I hate verbal game. This is my structure I follow in loud night clubs:

Dance>have fun>ignore girls>girls will give you proximity>ass bump>spin>escalate physically and non verbally>isolate (let's go outside for fresh air)>take her home>rinse and repeat till a girl goes home with you.

60% of the time, works every time.

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What the hell does a I wanna fuck you so bad face look like??? Dread to think. Probably a nut job, psycho look. How can you give a complete stranger a look like that? You don't even know her and I bet it looks creepy! As for dancing, ass grinding, ignore, dance, ignore, isolate, take girl outside for fresh air, take her home? Why the heck would she want to go home with you? What exactly have you done except be a jerk?The whole thing sounds weird and forced. Don't you guys ever think of getting to know someone first instead of thinking where you can stick your dick and then giving her marks out of ten? It's just insulting to women the way you behave. Seriously why not act like gentlemen instead of behaving like game playing, knuckle scraping baboons. I'm not surprised you struggle getting to know any girls let alone keep them as girlfriends. All you can think of is having sex with them and that's it. Go to a godamn prostitute if that's all you want. I'm not surprised a lot of girls think 'Oh God .. here comes another desperate loser trying to get into my knickers'. You're about as subtle as a fucking brick.

this message is a reply to MPUA Forum Enthusiast... i noticed that you mentioned something along on the lines of stop thinking with your dicks and treat women differently...well my friend if that's how you feel about this subject then this could only mean 1 of a few things..a your a faq l.o.l 2 your and emo that's cries himself to sleep every night dreaming of hot h.b's..or 3 your a fat chick that hates guys cause we won't give you no play l.o.l.....anyhow either one of these sounds like your a looser..that has no clue on what to do...so what you had to say to the person above you means nothing l.o.l.... if you haven't noticed by now this isn't your grandma's forums l.o.l so yes we are here for ways to get laid...seems like a no brainer but i guess you haven't caught on to what's really going on l.o.l...anyhow this is more or less a waste of my time i just wanted to let you know that if your looking for a real relationship type shit try e-harmony or plenty of fake fish..opps i meant plenty of fish. or whatever the hell that fake site is called...

Don't knock it till you try it.

Read 60 years of challenge.

most people in a club that are in social mode.

seduction face, this will alone will make your interactions more sexual and fast makeouts/sex etc.

This is your face:



P.s. have fun talking about her family on a loud dance floor with flashing lights , let me know how that works out for you. You obviously have no experience of seduction.

I used to try all that convo crap too on the dance floor , not efficient at a unless you look like Brad Pitt.

You have heard that 90% of communication is non verbal right? Basic stuff man.

If you want to have stimulating conversation ,do day game or something you bloody weirdo, girls don't go to clubs to have a stimulating convo. Are you mad?

Girls dance with their mates, and you open her with a verbal bollocks? You do know that's intruding? You're spoiling her fun. * hey stop dancing and having fun and talk to me* (cringe)

Of course there are some exceptions where they won't blow you out, but why do that when there are more effective and easier ways.

You seem to have not mentioned eye contact. You do knkw that is half the work done if she reciprocates right?

You're probably not even old enough to drink. USA the limit is 21 right?

Have you never seen those guys that are smooth and take girls home quick? Have you ever had sex that's been pretty fast?

I have to question your experience if that's never happened to you.

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Lol check his 1st post out:

Haha ironic how he has just mentioned how its about his you present yourself (non verb)

Then contradicts it by saying its about what you say (verbal)

P.s. enjoy your ugly chicks. Im sure you have proof to prove they are attractive though. I will be waiting.

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+1 on everything PEBBLE has said.

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I gotta admit, I think this is fairly incorrect. Because of where I live (Middle of sweet FA), I gotta rely on buses. So for me, it's either day game (9pm bus) or night game (3am bus.) The two are crazy different.

Night game, let's say a club or bar (For some reason, gyms also.) The girls are dressed nice and all prettied up. They look good, they've spent a lot of time making sure, and they've probably had a lot of guys so far tell them. So direct is out of the question. You have to do something to make yourself stand out. Dancing if you can is a good one, or verbal if you've got the voice to counter the heavy bass music.

Day game, let's say a Starbucks for example. She's sat at the table a few down from you, texting, maybe waiting for a friend. What she doesn't expect is for someone (This is where you come in) to come straight up to her and start a conversation, or ask to sit down, or maybe just flat out tell her that you think she looks incredible. For going out and running errands day-to-day, girls don't tend to spend hours getting ready. Quick shower, tie hair up, not much make up, sorted. So for a guy to come up to her and open a conversation like that when hundreds of other guys have just walked past her in the street, THAT makes you stand out during the day.

But back to the point at hand, I don't have any openers for a club. I'm more of a day gamer. Just avoid opening with a compliment, maybe try some kinda neg or incorporate her friends into it

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Bollocks.

Anything works If you have your shit together.

Most of the work should be done before the approach.

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Confidently approach smile and say "It's really loud in here isn't it......I can tell you that from the second I saw you I pictured us having wild passionate sex together, and it's brilliant because you can't hear a word I'm saying" (and just smile and nod)