| To make a long story short, we were together for 8 months, but we have been living in different cities for about 3 months now during the summer(summer vacation from college). Since she is a extremely busy real estate agent, we only saw each other for one weekend during this 3 month period. Before the summer the relationship was good(well she loved me atleast), always calling, sending messages with hearts etc, seeing each other a lot.
But during the summer I felt she prioritized the wrong things, during the few free weekends that she had, she either went home to her home town or to her summer house. Well then you might ask why not invite me? She meant that she hardly ever see her old friends, or her family so that she wants to go there alone. Is this fucked up thinking? She also had one week in greece with her best friend.
Well anyways, some things turned out bad for me during the summer. For example I got an inflammation in (kinda) my right testicle and my summer internship got cancelled 2 days before it was about to start. And I dont have that many friends in my hometown, so my summer got very AFC.(many friends in the city I study in). So I wasn't that happy during the summer and got a little bit unsocial(to much time to think). So the fun guy that she knew, wasnt that much fun talking to during the summer(no rich life to tell her about)
The only weekend that I saw her I was really AFC and kind of complained over the internship and the inflammation in the balls. We tried having sex but the dick got weak pretty fast. So after that weekend Im pretty sure all attraction got lost.
There are more things to tell, that is not that good, but Im trying to make this story short;)!
Anyways she got more and more cold the longer the summer went along. Yesterday I arrived in the college town that she lives in, and I wanted to see her. She started to complain that she would come home very late. I then said that I only wanted to se her quickly to say hi, and added that we havent seen each other for 1 and a half month! bla blabla bla Fast forward------> Later she said she had a very bad headache and that she had to go to bed. I then texted "that I cant take this anymore, its over between us"
blablabla(two texts between us) ---I then called her up and we talked a little. She said that she had lost her feelings for me. I can understand this, but I'm amazed how fast things can turn around! Before the summer she was talking about buying a house together!! Well I was very reasonable and alpha in this conversation, and told her that I understand that she has lost her feelings for me and that I thought it was to bad, but if she isnt feeling anything there is no point being together. I then told her that I wanted my bike back, and that kind of shocked her I noticed; like she thought "he is really serious about moving on without me" "this is really the end". I was also the one who ended the call and made it clear that there wasn't anything more to discuss. She later sended a message "it feels so strange and empty now". I didnt reply. She then called, didnt answer. One hour later I messaged "I saw you called, guess you are sleeping now, but otherwise you can call me up". She called me up, and I thought she had something important to say, but she didnt really. So I said*short version* "well there isnt that much more to say, I have to order some books now bla bla bla, sleep well"
Hope somebody is still reading;).. Oh yeah we decided to met one last time, pretty soon.
I kinda want her back since she is very hot and have big boobs;)..and we have a lot in common. Very smiliar in many ways.
How schould I play this out? Any other comment?
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