She can SPAM video chat me, but she says she hates video chat. Even just voice chat, eventhough we've talked on the phone.

The heart picture was drawn on her phone. But she hasnt been afraid of sending me pictures of herself at my demand. Ive got two examples.

A: I was teasing her about that she wouldnt look good in a blue tshirt. So she took me up on it. Took a picture and sent me the picture with her wearing a blue tshirt in her bathroom.

B: She isn't very tall, so I frequently tease her about it. Yesterday she was with her much younger cousin, so i said, that her cousin was probably taller than her. She laughed and teased back. I responded with a "Prove it". So she sent me a picture of her and her cousin standing next to each other (Like you do when you ask people to see who is highest ie. front faced to one direction with shoulders touching.)

I also tried looking all these pictures up on google image search to see if she actually just had taken them from somewhere. Nothing came up.

What a mind twister.

If she is a Catfish, she will have pre-made photos of attractive friends or relatives to make you less suspicious.

Stop texting / calling until you get a video chat or date.

But its all her on the pictures. And even on my demand. She couldnt possibly know that id demand to see who is the highest of her and her cousin (that she was babysitting) and thus find a pre-made photo of her and another girl, who even looks as young as she told me the cousin was (12 years old).


But yeah, ive given her a last chance for a meetup. And she know what will happen if we don't have a date by then.

The truth is, you don't know it's all her on the pictures. If you've never met her you don't know what she looks like. "On demand" doesn't mean shit, unless you say "Send a pic of yourself holding a rubber duck" "Send me one of you outside in wellington boots" etc. But even that is too much effort.

Easier to do what you are doing which is push for SPAM or more importantly, a date.

Considering her popular instagram account and facebook, where i haven't spotted a single of the pictures shes sent me, i'd say ive got a pretty good knowlegde of how she looks - If it in fact is her, that is.

But I agree. Push for a date og video chat, is my biggest concern. So thats what i am going to do. If not, its goodbye to her.

Dude if she can't at least make a sacrifice and video chat you for 1 minute just because she "hates" it, what makes you think she cares anything about your feelings? People make small and large sacrifices for the people they care about. And video chatting isn't even a sacrifice.. So she should've been done that.

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I guess you're right. I'll see what I can come up with.

Well ....

You we're right guys.


In all these 5 months, this was all a setup. She was indeed a catfish.

I found out last night, going all detective-mode on facebook and it all started by looking her up by her telephone number.
I found her entire real familiy - and her. Everything was like she mentioned about her brother and divorced parents. Even their names were correct. Only difference was .. her.

It wasn't the HB8 I had imagined. It was a nerdy HB4 girl. I've even made her come out and tell me the truth now.

I should've listened to you guys, from the start.

lol well.. I'm not going to say I told you so.

Take this as a lesson. When 3 different people tell you the same thing.. IDC what it is.. Listen to them.

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Yeah. I guess the best part is that I don't actually feel betrayed or hurt by her or anything. I always had my small doubts, but it still seemed so real, especially since she could talk to me on the phone for straight 10 hours (I'm not even kidding - we talked from 23:30 - 9:30 next morning without stops) . In addition to that she had these small converstations with other people, which seemed to be people from reallife.

But well. Now I've experienced what it means to be communicating with a catfish, and can actually differentiate from a catfish and real persons. So lesson learned.

You should never be on the phone to a girl for 10 hours, whether you have met her or not.