I met this beautiful woman 2 weeks ago... It just clicked, we kissed, we had sex.. Perfect!

Now, her Ex-BF heard about us dating, got in a panic and is now trying everything he can to get her back...

The problem is, she was still in love with him when we met, those 2 weeks ago. Though she didn't say it, i KNOW she is considering getting back together with him.

OK, it's her call... But i don't like to just stand here and watch it happen...

Keep having sex with her, she will become chemically attached to you the more you do her. 3 or 4 sessions would about do it I'm guessing.

The problem is, we're not really seeing each other for the moment... I tried to make plans for Sunday, but she said: 'Maybe..'
I'm no fool, and i have a guess of what she's up to... But i can't figure out a way to buy myself back in...

Don't get clingy. If she heads back to him, so be it. Show her you could not really care, regardless of decision. You can tell her it was fun and such or something funny. But do not extend this too long.

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We'll see what happens...
She hasn't dumped me yet, but when she does, i'll just look her in the eye, smile and say: 'OK, it's your call, but to be honest, i think you are a stupid chicken for doing this...' Then i'll kiss her, and walk away...

I don't think I would call her a stupid chicken. Just tell her you that you wanted to see where this would go but you understand her decision and tell her to take care. Then never contact her again, if you see her out act completely unaffected. Also you should stop thinking about her breaking it off, this for sure will make you come off as needy.

I use the word 'Chicken' or 'Stupid Chicken' as a term of affection...

Be an alpha-male and don't get all mad at her for it. If you start getting all emotional she will start to lose attraction for you and you might run her back to her ex. Just tell her. We need to talk and say something along the lines of, "I like you, I trust you, but I'm not comfortable with you texting your ex-boyfriend, any other guy in the world and I'm fine with it, just not him."

Thanx, ToxicRaps..!

I wasn't gonna fall for the emotional trap, not with her. Either way, whether this goes further or not, she and i will deal with it as adults. We are adults, i'm 35, she is 32, we both have a child from a previous relationship, we have a lot in common and it clicks really well between us.

But she has been in love with this guy for a long time (2 years) and they've had a relationship in the past, for about 6 months... I have know her for less than 3 weeks, so the guy definitely has a competitive advantage over me.

But we are PUA's, masters of seduction... We ought to whack that guy, no matter what. The thing is... i personally have no clue how to..?

Here's an update...

I didn't send her anything for 2 days, until this morning when i sent her a little message about 2 things that are going on (casual, relevant stuff)... I asked if she was doing well, and if she had still heard from her 'ex-future-ex' BF...

We chatted for about 20 minutes and made plans for next Saturday afternoon, we go shopping, she will bring her kid along (6 yo) and i'll bring my 4 yo daughter... I guess sexual escalation will be out of the question ;o)

She was honest enough to mention she still heard the Ex-BF, but i don't feel like i'm chanceless...

Let's make the best of it Saturday, and see what happens..

DO NOT ask her about the ex boyfriend! !! This shows you are insecure and worried about the competition. You need to act like you are mike tyson, no challenger can make you feel threatened. Asking about the other guy only makes him more powerful in her eyes. Ignore the issue and fuck her brains out at every opportunity.

I haven't read anybody else's replies, but I've been the ex-BF in this story before. I lost and this is what the other guy did.

- Do not be clingy
- Do not ask about the ex-BF
- Do not say it bothers you
- Be your normal fun self when you do spend time together
- Be prepared for it not to work out, she may just be to emotionally messed up to jump into another relationship


I'll admit when I lost her to this guy and started to pretend 'I' didn't care she came back, but then I made the fact she was with this other guy an issue and she went straight back to him.

Hope some of this helps.

~Winchester

Here's an update...

We went to a birthday party together... Keeping YOU GUYS' advice in mind (aka, don't be bothered by the ex-bf & be cool & just do your game...) I just did my game...

It went well...

The 'Welcome' was pretty cold, but i kept taking initiative, 'forced' her to kiss me more than once... Until at one given point it just 'clicked' again, she surrendered / submitted, we kept on kissing...

At the end of the night we walked back to our bike/car, hugging and kissing...

I'm not saying she'll pick me over ex-bf, but i'm pretty sure she's considering it, after tonight...

(PS: tried to keep this short, plenty of stuff happened, of course... but this is my executive summery ;o))

Many thanks for your posts, guys! Keep doing it, and i'll pay ya' back one day!

This x2

He who fucks her better wins her over. Simple. Don't turn into what her ex probably turned into... someone who is jealous and insecure. Then you and him will be sitting there playing video games together while someone else is fucking her...

I agree, SEX is KEY..!

BTW, i'm an amateur-triathlete, and i whispered in her ear at a given point..: 'Do you know why i'm on my bike or in the swimming pool or running, everyday..??' & She goes: 'Tell me...'
I replied: 'Because i need to loose energy, otherwise i would trying to fuck you like 10 times a day...'

After that, she just completely submitted...

SUBMISSION... It's all that I want from a girl that i like...