Hey there, this is my first post glad to be apart of the forum now:). Anyway here is the thing, i could really use you bros's help on. I met this girl awhile back at her workplace(video game store) anyway we hit it off. Im 16 and she is 19. It seems to be a problem for her. The thing is i still really wanna get with her but it seems to cause a barrier. Anyway we haven't seem eachother in a long time untill yesterday when i saw her at a festival and all. She smiled at me i smiled back ans kept walking fwsiting for her to text me. She dows 2min later asming me where i am. Afterwsrds we hang out for hours laughing making contact and all and it seems to be goong great. But theres always something weird about her that makes her not see me as boyfriend material and it bothers me. She knows my intentions towards her its no secret. After she left, i texted her later on and at somme point asked if our paths will cross again but intentionally(thats the way we text) and she said i don't know, maybe. I know my question is all over the place but i could really use somme advice please ill try to explain better if you're interested

The older you get the less and less age becomes a big deal. Unfortunately for you this girl is out of high school and you are just in the middle of it. This presents a problem, keep trying to game her but don't pass up all the high school girls that want to explore their sexuality. If she doesn't want to hook up I would def. remain on good terms with her because like I said the older you get the less and less age becomes anything to worry about so who knows what could happen with her down the road.

Alright i see. And what about seing her? I mean its weird cause when we talk in real life she is always laughing and all but when i text her she dosen't sound like she even wants to see me...

That's probably because she has time to think when she sees messages. That age gap at 16 and 19 is a huge barrier for both males and females. If you're into PU just game women your own age or maybe a year older. When you're 18 you can get 20 year olds. Generally when you're 21 you can pretty much nail anyone up to 30ish. After that point there's not really any social taboo at those ages.

Alright i see but what should i do if i still wanna get with her? Should i just stop talking to her and hope to meet her again someday at another festival?

You see, you won't get with her like that.

You're suffering from oneitis. Just ignore her, score ten other women and if you bump into her in the future or whatever, just play it like you've just opened on a stranger. Don't neg her. You don't need to even if she's on a high horse because you'll already know her and have rapport with her.

Thank you very much, thats the best advice i got yet and i will take it.

I really hope your grammar in the text you sent her was much better than in this post...

And "will our paths cross again?" wtf is that? lol you're being way too needy dude.