HER
We were on the first "date".
I suppose she's around 40, she didn’t wanna say and I wasn’t much interested in knowing.
She’s quite attractive and with a great body, that’s more important than age .

I'm not young but younger than her, and she said "you're a baby" when I said my year of birth, but she later forgot and I didn't repeat it.

WHAT HAPPENED
In a conversation she said “she’d wish for an engagement ring”. It was unrelated to me, but it got me worried a bit.

I brought her home and we made out on the bed without bra but in spite my persistence didn't want to take the pants off.
It was quite passionate though and we stayed there for quite some time, she was enjoying.

Both in conversation and in the bed before leaving she said “it takes time with me”.

GIVE ME YOUR OPINION
I’m worried about 2 things:
1. The “engagement ring” comment and the fact she says she’s very romantic worried me a bit about clingy behavior even though she doesn’t have any reason for thinking of me as a potential husband: I said I wanted to leave from here and the age difference seemed to matter to her;

2. She said that it will take time with her. As she was really “engaged” in the make out I thought that might not be the case, but.. Could it actually be?
I’m not that willing to spend too much time with her without nothing happening.

What do you think?

I think all you want to do is get something for nothing out of her you selfish individual ie to get your end away and she knows it and she knows once you fuck her, you won't give a damn about her. That's why you are getting nowhere with her. Either you want to be a typical bloke, fuck her and then dump her or you want a relationship/more with her. Make up your stupid mind as she can see right through your immature crap.

A tiny bit judgmental of you .

And the one you describe is not typical bloke behaviour, that's an un-respectful, un-empathycal person (do any of these two adjective actually exist? ) whom, I believe, could hardly be successful in nurturing any kind of meaningful relationship.

No, I don't want a long term relationship, but that doesn't mean I can't get worried about either investing too much without returns (second question) and/or getting people either hurt or in a not nice situation (first question).

She is looking to settle down, put you into bf territory... what type of "date" you went on...

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Yes, I think so, just wondering if she might be thinking of doing that with me in spite of my hints I'm not the right guy.

We went for a bottle of wine in the park, I told her to bring a snack and she brought at least 3-4 different kinds of snacks.

During the talk she proposed to go to the movies together.
She also said she decided with her family (she was living with them for a long time) not to take any more dogs because the death of their last one was so painful they didn't want to go through something similar again, and that sounds to me like emotional overreaction and like getting attached a bit too much..

The day after our meetup she sent 2 texts, I texted back once and she replied proposing to go on some "adventure trip" with her car.

Yes, I want her physically and I'd even enjoy her as a friend, but I can foresee some possible troubles here...

^ Older women looking for a provider typically or a boy toy(meanwhile)... Or they have both at the same time(my best friend, has multiple boy toys) while searching for a provider... These are women getting old or old and running out of time frustrated they used to be hot and the shit, now the value declining some of them in a rush to get married and have kids... When i did will women i present myself as scumbag, boy toy all the way, let them now AS CLEAR AS possible that i am a fucker and the worst dude for bf possibility or future...

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Latest text communications after I tell her to come over for dinner:

HER
Tomorrow yes but only in a public space! last time was too dangerous for me

ME
Kinky lady, people could see us in a public place .
It will rain tomorrow, inside is cosier...

HER
Inside in some restaurant with good, reputable girl )

(5 mins later)
HER
Hey, you still interested in the dinner, Mr Casanova?

ME
Yes, but I don't like restaurants, I want to feel free in more private locations..

HER
I'm not so free like you


I'm a bit losing patience to be honest, she was enjoying and I believe she likes me, she knows -or should know- I don't want a relationship... What's all this childish thing of "dangerous" and "reputable"?

dude she is imposing her frame on you, don't let her do that shit to you, betazizing your ass, next the bitch...



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It seems you two are looking for very different things. Know that at one point, if you get in, she may see it as something more than you.

I would be straight forwards with her. Let her know she's smoking hot and you want her physically but that you're not at all looking for any serious relation of any kind. It happen a lot to me, it works and sex is better when her mind is free. If she's not into it, move on! Don't waste your time and energy unless you look for a gf. If you sleep with her pretending you'll give more than good times, the next guy looking for sex with her will have an even harder time to get her there. Giving good experiences to girls and not making them regret they had sex makes them easier for the next guy that wants her body. We should think that way. It's called "sex ecology"

that was my first post. Hi everyone.

dude, what a girl says is not that important ESPECIALLY when it comes to hooking up. I've had girls tell me they would not sleep with me early in a first date only to sleep with me that night. So, her saying it takes time with her doesn't necessarily mean ANYTHING at all. Proceed as you would if she had never said that would be my general advice for these type of situations.

Now in your current situation where you are now. I do not like to regress physically with women. So, I generally will not agree to a date if it's not at my place or I will agree to her date then cancel on her so she gets the message that I am not going to regress.

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I don't see the dilemna here.

Clearly she is nothing more than a pussy to you. You made your play, what's the big fucking deal if she doesn't come to your place for supper so you can fuck her?

You stated you don't want to go out to eat. Don't fucking go. End of conversation. If she won't give her pussy to you and listen to what you want, then there is no dilemma for you. Take her pussy on your terms, or let it go and hit another one. The only way to get what you want is to not need it. You give in and start dating her, and it's just gonna hurt one or both of you later.