Hey guys. I'm playing a gig tonight. In the other band there is this girl who I went out with a couple of times and only ended up making out with her on a couple of occasions. I couldn't F-close her before she went to Mexico for spring break (surprise, surprise: I didn't end up hearing from her again). This was all a couple of years ago. Anyways since I'm going to be seeing her I thought I may as well send a flirty restart text before the gig. I was thinking something along the lines of "So I guess we are playing a show together tonight. You're not going to be all weird are you? ". Thoughts?? Thanks!!

Don't text.

Texting her at this point conveys that you have been thinking about her ever since you lost touch= needy.

Just do your thing at the GIG and when you make eye contact with her be all like "oh heyyy, you went to spring break right? tell me all about it..Lets get a drink at the bar..bla"

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I'll second Pebbles post, that's a good idea.

I've got text questions! Who's got the answers!

So i usually go out to eat with buddies at the same place everytime. And i had this waitress real suddenly flertting with me by thr third time. my friends r good wingmen, they let me AMOG very easily. so I've been keeping the routine mild and asking a lot of questions but i ask if shiuld would want to go out for ice cream and hang out afterwards. and she said "i don't know yet" . And he's pretty boring and lacks effort to the conversion, but she text me evey morning. idkguys, how to i get her to flower and cone out of her shell???

"When are you free for a drink?"

And let her answer. If she stutters, you know she ain't interested

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Thank you! Strait to the point. i like that. She's still interested. Any key tips, like do's and do not's, for the first date? I've study a lot of NLP and pua gon ebooks and reading material. but i have been out of the game for financial reasons. Anyone have any basics. to jog my memory. i think I'm in closing stage. lots of dhv and kino, and looking for ioi's. right?