I fell in love with a narcissist. Two years ago when I first started PUA I met a narcissistic girl. Back then I don't know what it means, she put out all the signs: she was down for sex, fuck semifrequently - kind of like playing hard to get. She tells me she's into me, calls/text every day and would occasionally ask for favors. Goes on dates with me.

Sounds like a normal bitch? WRONG.

When push comes to shove, she won't be there for you. Even with sex, she is always the one that stops first. She uses you for favor and when you think you two are genuinely bonding, she views it as amusement.

I'm just wondering if there are any PUAs out there who's been tricked by these bitches. Is it better to walk away or is there a way to get back at them?

maybe she feels like you don't respect her..... im not sure why on earth she would think that but bitches are always complaining about how us men dont respect them. i don't understand it at ALL!!!!

The best advice I can give you is to cut her off and walk away completely.

Although, if you're too weak to do that, which you probably are because you made this post you must apply her same principle. Stop giving her what she wants. Stop before her the next time you are having sex. Just beat her to the punch and give no explanation. " I just don't feel like it" and nothing else following your stoppage. Its the only way to turn the tables.


But once again... I say walk away. It sounds like your self esteem is lower than hers because you are subjecting yourself to being controlled by a woman.

P.S. I'm willing to bet my life savings she's fucking someone else.

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God there are so many issues with this. First off, almost all humans are narcissistic. Its to be human. You also are just looking at it from your point of view, ie narcissism. You wanted sex, her to be there for you, more than favors...whatever. The problem is you. You're needy and out come dependent. This woman didnt "trick" you. You tricked yourself by thinking the way you do.

How do you deal with it.... either walk to join the game. Out narcissist her. You are the prize, not her. You should be banging so many women its just not a big deal if she doesn't.

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My personal mantra:

"Every woman's a whore in the right situation"
"They're all selling it for something"
"She's sluttier than you think she is"

Haha, Ill bet both my testicles. I know a solid bet when I see one...

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My personal mantra:

"Every woman's a whore in the right situation"
"They're all selling it for something"
"She's sluttier than you think she is"

Well, what the heck.
You seem to like this girl, so I'm going to tell you to play the narcissist game.

First, watch this video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6J7OG5JcnKo

Notice how narcissistic Marc is.
He's bro version of your girl.
Be that way to your girl.

In the mean time, repeat this mantra daily: "She needs me more than I need her"

& You don't know if she's cheating on you.

If she's stills seeing you, then she has at least some need for you.
Match her need, emotionally & sexually. Your need for her is higher than hers for you at the moment.
This may mean talking to another girl on the side, to lower your need for just your current girl.