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 Post subject: Korean women
PostPosted: Mon Aug 19, 2013 8:02 am 
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So I'm heading to Korea (Seoul) next week and I'll be staying for about 10 days at a friend's place who's starting univ. there. The thing I wanna ask you about is in regard to locals. I've never approached any asian women so far. Is there any major difference in pick up concerning the cultural difference?
Should I be focusing more on daygame, but wouldn't language be a barrier? If there's anyone who could provide some insight into asian (KOREAN) culture, I'll appreciate. Thx!


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 Post subject: Re: Korean women
PostPosted: Mon Aug 19, 2013 9:33 am 
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I've lived in Korea for the past few years, been with more than my fair share of the local women and I'm currently in a LTR with a Korean girl.

The major differences in game will primarily stem from the culture's Confucian roots combined with the easy integration of the Christian culture from the West due to its high compatibility with the historically indigenous Shamanism. You won't be able to get away with talking about sex as much as you could in the US, for instance, so sexual framing uses a whole different map. So you're better off with just using sexual state projection instead. Kino has to be a lot more situational and less overt (but still as heavy as per normal pickup), and calibration is a shit ton more important.

Since the native language here is not English, don't bother with NLP stuff, of course. Most places you go will have women that know English, but you can still plow through sets even if they don't understand most of what you're saying.

For seduction, you'll find that the Korean women most compatible with a Westerner such as yourself (I'm assuming you are), are the ones who have a deep-seeded feeling of contempt for the negative parts of collectivism and you can use that to your advantage by offering a space where she can enjoy the benefits of individualism with you. Check out my blog post here about this: http://chiefpua.com/a-whole-new-world/


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 Post subject: Re: Korean women
PostPosted: Wed Sep 25, 2013 9:05 am 
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I totally agree with what Chief says. Far-eastern girls requires a totally different setup from what we've been learning in normal western PUA/game theory.

Chief, do you have good links to how to do "sexual state projection"?
With calibration, can you give us a few examples please :)
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I've lived in Korea for the past few years, been with more than my fair share of the local women and I'm currently in a LTR with a Korean girl.


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 Post subject: Re: Korean women
PostPosted: Fri Sep 27, 2013 2:51 am 
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I totally agree with what Chief says. Far-eastern girls requires a totally different setup from what we've been learning in normal western PUA/game theory.

Chief, do you have good links to how to do "sexual state projection"?
With calibration, can you give us a few examples please :)
Well, sexual state projection is pretty straightforward: make yourself feel horny while casually talking to a girl and those feelings will rub off on her. It operates from the same principle as "emotions are contagious."

As for calibration, we pickup artists understand calibration as quickly perceiving subcommunication to react quickly and keep the social interaction in a good place. There's a word for that in Korean: "noonchi" - While generally only PUAs, women, and especially socially adept men in the west know this concept of calibration, pretty much every Korean knows it very well, so you have to play by a higher standard of it. Although with the right women you can completely forgo that and go with a more nonreactive strategy.


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 Post subject: Re: Korean women
PostPosted: Fri Sep 27, 2013 8:31 am 
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For some reason I have noticed that East Asian women really like me. Now this typically goes against what my Asian friends say, apparently I have been told that South Asians are often looked down upon in almost all East Asian countries (not to bring up an old demon again) but a lot in my experience have even made moves on me. Never been with a full Asian girl (have been with a few Asian-White mixes though) but I have had more than enough chances. Reason being I haven't been that attracted to full Asian women as much and I am a really close minded guy by nature.

What I have found is that Asian girls require an approach that is slightly more aggressive than that of Asian males but isn't overly aggressive like the one you would see guys from urban neighborhoods in the US try.

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 Post subject: Re: Korean women
PostPosted: Fri Sep 27, 2013 10:23 am 
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Thanks Chief for your reply :)

I never imagined or dreamed of getting a Korean girl before (in UK very hard to meet). I thought after having UK girls, China girls, Taiwanese girls, Japan girls (varying LTR to ONS)... am getting too old for this PUA stuff now... then all of a sudden I got my first Korean girl 12 years my junior!!! WTF? (by accident/chance...fluke) However, all that NLP crap didn't really work (unlike Chinese/Taiwanese who are very susceptible to NLP)... so now I have a whole new PUA skillset to learn (and still I think am getting old for this ><)

Chief, are you still open to PM and advice/help etc?
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I totally agree with what Chief says. Far-eastern girls requires a totally different setup from what we've been learning in normal western PUA/game theory.

Chief, do you have good links to how to do "sexual state projection"?
With calibration, can you give us a few examples please :)
Well, sexual state projection is pretty straightforward: make yourself feel horny while casually talking to a girl and those feelings will rub off on her. It operates from the same principle as "emotions are contagious."

As for calibration, we pickup artists understand calibration as quickly perceiving subcommunication to react quickly and keep the social interaction in a good place. There's a word for that in Korean: "noonchi" - While generally only PUAs, women, and especially socially adept men in the west know this concept of calibration, pretty much every Korean knows it very well, so you have to play by a higher standard of it. Although with the right women you can completely forgo that and go with a more nonreactive strategy.


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