My gf now of a few months (been dating over a year though) always wants sex and lets me do pretty much whatever I want to her.

The other night when we layed in bed though, we fooled around a bit and she said she could barely keep her eyes open aka just cuddle with me. I said I was tired too and stretched my body out away from her. She lays there for a sec and starts going down on me. She got me horny, I start attacking her, we have sex despite her being tired and kinda being meh about it, but she asks if I'm going to come because she is tired and says she doesn't have the stamina i do.

I finish, sit up, tell her that wasn't really great (LOL) and she is like "that doesn't make me feel very good, I was tired and didn't have the stamina you do." So I said just tell me anytime we can take a break. We make up, everything is fine.

The morning comes and she has a half hour till work. She starts wanking me off, I escalate and she is like "no" then "no" again, then says she wants to but doesn't want to get me pissy by having a quickie. I said I don't give a fuck, we have sex and I finish on her (lol)


I have this issue sometimes with her. Usually I get her to come through my fingers first, then we bang and eventually when we bang after like 15 min she is like "where do you want to come" and says she doesn't have the stamina I do. She also has told me in the past she has only finished with a guy a few times EVER before me.

Mind you the next day she did me a huge favor (non sexual), so does it sound like she just can't go as long as me?

..... whats the question?

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Did I push too hard for sex? The first time she went down on me after I said I was tired too (even though I wasn't but I knew she was too tired for it) and the second time she told me no but I said 5 minutes is fine. She thought I'd be pissy if I didn't get good sex I assume because i told her it wasn't good the first time


Also, can women really get exhausted from banging even if they only came once from fingering and not the actual sex?

maybe just take a break for one night from fucking,and just cuddle,then fuck her the morning,when you are fully rested

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I've linked you scientific studies before noting how women can get 50 consecutive orgasms and such but it seems that you keep on repeating this question again and again.

She's coming off from your fingers because you can easily maneuver your fingers to her right spots. Use pillows or raise her legs to get the proper angles so she'll come again and again through your cock. How can a woman get tired when she's just laying around on her back, hmm?

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When I make her cum with my fingers, she immediately stops my hand and doesn't want anymore stimulation. This is the deep spot I am using. And that night she was extremely tired BEFORE sex so that was why she was tired. Mostly when she asks if I am going to cum we have already banged alot and she is sore from previous times, and I assume since she has trouble getting off in the past that it is tiring to just keep going for her.

These studies will also probably say that women can just keep going and going nonstop, which my girl clearly can't. She says sex is tiring going at it so much, and doesn't want more stimulation after her orgasm any time in the past. But she jumps my bones constantly and initiates

The same thing happens to me all the time (using my cock) but I just force it and most girls will come again, and again, and again. It's very rare that a girl is truly hypersensitive down there and is okay with just one vaginal orgasm.

I also seldom make girls' pussies sore. You'll need to try banging other girls and see if you're getting the same results (sore pussy, refusal to go on, etc.)

Orgasm results in lots of oxytocin release which relaxes the body and makes tiredness go away; just like a massage but better. After a very tiresome and busy day, the working girls I'm currently fucking will often ask for sleepovers to relax.

Sore pussy is often a result of inadequate foreplay leading to poor lubrication or hitting the wrong spots.

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Some things she has said/done:

-(I cut my finger) "nooo we need those fingers"
-"go faster and I will cum" (grabs arm digs nails in) then finishes eventually
-Every time I finger the deep spot, she grabs my arm after she comes and stops me, then kinda snuggles up with me slightly more hazy eyed but not like TIRED tired
-"It's easy once we found the spot"
-her hips buck up and she breathes deeper with her stomach taking deep visible breaths
-alot of the time a few seconds before she will say "OK" kindve in a tense pleasure tone then eventually finish by holding an OHHHHHHHHHHH in high pitch



Frankly she is very young and probably not smart enough to fake the associated tiredness and stopping stimulation once she has finished. I have read the deep spot can take some rougher stimulation too, and I am not hurting her, and I don't finger her for a long long time so she wouldn't be stopping me because it didn't feel good. She certainly looks in pleasure the whole time start to finish and often jumps my bones for sex

Good sign. Some girls will also threaten you with, "If I caught you cheating, I'll cut off your cock and tongue."
Another good sign. If you can make her cum by sustaining a fast enough speed without popping your load prematurely, then you belong to the top 20% of men who can make girls cum with their cocks.
Before I learned to push forward for multiple orgasms, most girls act this way. As I've said, you're no longer an average lover if you can make a girl cum at least once in her deep spot (or g-spot, or PC muscle, or cervix, or clitoris). You're already an above average lover at this point in time.
Yes. Foreplay is still crucial though before you penetrate her.
Most American porn stars do these a lot even though their pussies aren't wet. These are not the signs that you should look for to determine whether she is having an orgasm or not.
Vocalizations are not reliable indicators of orgasm. A high pitch though is a good indicator of peak ovulation.
The ability to fake orgasms to keep their men among women is not a learned behavior rather it is instinctive.

Before sex with a 15 year old was turned into a crime by lawmakers in my country, I've banged women from 15 to 55 years old.

In fact, I've studied and practiced fucking properly many years before I started studying the pick up arts. I was a noob back then who concentrated on point F(ucking) instead of learning points A(pproaching), B(antering), C(losing numbers. kisses and pussies), D(irty talking and demonstrations of high value) and E(scalation in verbal and nonverbal sexual terms) first.

If it wasn't just for sheer determination, resilience and some knowledge of body language, I wouldn't have been able to get girlfriends and flings. Girls try to fake vaginal orgasms most of the time-- until they encounter their first one.

Again, you can already give her at least one vaginal orgasm. You're on the top spot already as a good lover. It will take some time before you learn to give her multiple consecutive orgasms at various different spots in her vagina.

No need to rush things. Based on your previous posts, this girl is yours and all indicators establish the fact that she's loyal and loves you.
If you're making her pussy sore, that indicates friction and most probably, internal abrasions due to inadequate lubrication. Hurting her is a matter of degree.

Bottom line: No worries bro. She's yours and she's loyal based on the information you've been giving us. You are above average in your bedroom skills. Eventually, you'll learn to give girls multiple consecutive orgasms but this takes time and lots of practice.

You're already familiar with the theories on how to give girls multiple orgasms. In time, you'll achieve bedroom skills mastery.

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Thanks for the awesome feedback hellhound. She said the following too:

"I don't have sex this much (frequency) with other guys in the past"

"sex is definitely never boring with YOU"

"we have so much chemistry"

"I was worried it would get boring if we had it this much...but it's hard not to when it is good"



Yet in the back of my head I still have my concerns because when I finger her to orgasm I don't feel contractions very much, only a little a few times if at all. Last night I pushed her past when she said OK and kept going and she kept saying "Yes yes yes" "baby" and a few other things, then was slightly tired afterwards.

She never tells me if she cums though lol. The only indication I get is when she will say "a little faster and I'll come" or she'll say "I wish we could cum together."

Does her saying "I wish we could cum together" mean likely that I have made her cum in the past and I can trust her signs? That plus the "we need those fingers" lines strongly imply she did right?

Yep. You're making good progress bro.

In time, you'll get to see or feel the subtle signs of her involuntary vaginal contractions. It takes tons of practice and lots of fucking.
Hell, yeah!

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