Hey all, there's this girl I've known for 2 years or so I asked her number a couple days ago when I was hanging out with a friend and she was there by chance. She has computer problems so I texted her about it and said I'll make your computer but in return you'll have to clean my room, joked around a bit and flirted a bit and now she's coming over tomorrow.

Also when we were hanging out I think she was flirting with me, she said things like "when you're my bf I'll tattoo your name on my butt" jokingly.

What should I do when she comes? I'm kinda anxious. lol. Should I just instruct her on how to clean my room while I play around with her laptop? Maybe do something fun after we're done?

Haha dude.. Girls aren't stupid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

She knows why she's coming over, no girl is going over to a guy house to clean his room and unless she has plans on getting it messy

Wise up bro.. Make a little music playlist, pick up a cheap bottle of wine, and just have a good time. This one is definitely in the bag.

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Clean her pipes with your pipe cleaner, durh.

Refer to above 2 posts..

I forgot to mention she's my friend's ex. LOL.

I'm probaly too puss to do something. And also I would feel bad, so I called it off. It just makes me feel bad. I've had a girl in my room before, but nothing happened really. >.> I'm still AFC obv

If you want this girl you have to make your move, she won't stay attracted to you forever. Whatever you want TAKE it and have no regrets if you don't do this you may regret later!

Should I say "Are you coming tonight?"

Depends on how you broke it off....if you said you had something pop up just tell her it fell through and want to see her. If not just say something along the lines of what you said here....keep it simple and get her alone in your room, then make your move. You mentioned you were scared but man up and make your move at least you will know where you stand with her and you won't have to wonder, what if. Making your move doesn't mean you have to fuck her but you have to let her know your intentions of being more than just friends. GOOD LUCK

If you broke it off, stick to the script. You can hit her up in a day or so and set something else up but for now just stick to your guns.

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If people wanna know how it worked out, this is what happened. I asked her if she was coming that night and she said no, because she had to take care of her brother who was sick. I know she cares a lot about her brother so okay. She never texted me again and neither did I text her. And I think it's better this way to be honest.

Also, what do I do when a girl calls me a big boy? o.O Wtf, was talking with a friend of mine and told her I traded in my old shoes for new ones and she asked me how I went about it. I told her I was just being polite and that's how I got it done. Then she called me a big boy. Not sure what to think...

"Big boy haha"

Got an update on the situation.

Met the same girl at the fair and just said hello, just act normal. A friend of her made a remark, which was "is he your boyfriend?" you know kinda in that fashion. I just ignored it and continue to talk to her. Left them soon after that, since I didn't know any of them.

I was thinking of texting something playful like "You shouldn't tell all your friends I'm your new boyfriend"

Bump.