I wanted to share my experience from earlier today. I had known this girl a while she is a stunner and always had a crush on me even when she had a bf, but I never acted on it. Lately everytime I posted something on fb she liked it or commented. I thought to myself is this an ioi should I wait for her to send me an msg then I said to myself fukk this. While I am wasting time waiting wondering if she likes me whether her liking my shit is an ioi wondering what I should do next someone else is gonna come along sweep her off her feet and I'll be shit outta luck. So I went on fb chat I thought if she's on I'll talk to her a bit get her # and go from there. She wasn't so I thought no problem next time. Then I thought maybe next time will be too late I saw her # was posyed on her fb so I said fukk it I am gonna call her then I thought that might be a bit awkward she doesn't know my # probably wouldn't answer so I txt her. It went great then my phone was dying out so I tell her I txt her I gotta run for a bit I'll call you in about 15 -20 min. She's like great so I throw my phone on the charger take a few min get a general idea of what I am gonna say when I do call her. 20 min later I call her went perfectly and I have a date tonight. Basically what I am saying is if you want something go and take it don't worry about ioi's and all that. Hopefully this thread helps out ppl that read it.

Thanks man!
Big problem that i have is that im always looking for the right time to do something. Im like "no not yet, in 10 min." or "no i will do it when i leave" or shit like that. In fact the right time will never come, thats what i know now... Hope its not to late in my case...

Quite an inspiring post. I also overthink stuff sometimes, waiting for the perfect moment, writing a script for the perfect txt or conversation, reading the signs, even if sometimes they are not there... But sometimes you just have to man up and take a leap of faith.

Thank you for the story and the confidence boost and good luck in your date.

most of the time, that is exactly what you should do

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No worries mate! I used to always look for ioi's and that shit. Then I changed my mindset towards that if I spend 10 min looking for an ioi that's 10 min that I wasted that I couldve spent talking to the girl. Anyway get on your game and go after that girl! We're pulling for you let us know how it goes good luck!