First of all, I want to thank everyone on this forum who has helped me with questions in the past. Secondly, I am in dire need of some advice so thanks in advance to everyone that posts.

I am somewhat ashamed to admit that my game has taking a complete dive since I have moved to my new apartment. I am in the middle of a 3 month dry spell, and it is starting to effect me psychology. I do not feel like half the man I used to be. My confidence and desire to game is at an all time low.

3 months ago I was on a roll, although I was living in an ultra conservative environment with few targets. I had a good mindset, a strong frame, and some solid results.

I moved to an ultra liberal city, and I am now staying in a plush student apartment next to a party university. Targets are easier, hotter, and more abundant. Furthermore, I am in the best shape of my life. I have the physique of a Greek God, 7% body fat with shredded abs. I cannot fathom why I am still in the middle of a dry spell, and have turned to you guys for help.

I must be doing something wrong, so I feel that I need to cut all the dead weight in my life, and build from a new foundation.

List of the things I am cutting:

-All people, especially women that do not add to the reality I want to live. Basically women only get one chance with me. If I do not enjoy their company, or they are not willing to escalate with me then I will ignore them until the are able to prove themselves. Any girls that flake once, or cause drama will be removed from my life as well.

-Any negative thoughts or limitations that take away from the reality I want to live will not be entertained.

-Cigarettes and Bud

-Alcohol: I am only going to drink on special occasions, and a, going to drink sparing.

List of things I will be including in my life, or doing with more vigor.

-Working out even more. I will be moving my bench press, weights, etc. to my new apartment.

-Gaming even more, and at all opportunities. Being more direct and dominant with my game (I prefer natural game)

-Reading more positive and informative books, especially self help and game material.

-Being more social, seeking out guys and girls with similar interests that add to the reality I want to live.

-I am going to start meditating more, using more positive affirmation, and mental techniques to get into the right mind set.

-I am going to keep a journal on my game. I am going to document my failures, success, and room for improvement.


All this being said, I look forward to any and all advice. If you have managed to read this far and post a comment, I will be willing to answer any of your posts that suggest to me. Furthermore, any knowledge or experience I lack in gaming girls, I possess in fitness and nutrition. I would love to help anyone out with fitness goals and concerns.

"All people, especially women that do not add to the reality I want to live. Basically women only get one chance with me. If I do not enjoy their company, or they are not willing to escalate with me then I will ignore them until the are able to prove themselves. Any girls that flake once, or cause drama will be removed from my life as well."

Pretty rigid mindset. Drama? So basically NO woman on the face of the planet will be worthy of your standard. You're setting yourself up for failure with all your "shoulds". Not willing to escalate? What if she doesn't want to give off the wrong impression (e.g., that she's easy). Are you infallible?

You're going to run into some serious problems with this mindset, just wait and see.

Okay, we'll what would you suggest?

For the weight loss gym is one of the good platform for the workout you can go to the gym and exercising for the reducing belly fat in the presence of personal trainer. Personal trainer will tell you different workouts for the rapidly fat lossing....

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7% body fat?

Sounds like you either don't have game for your environment at all or just fail completely at it.

Reassess your game and your surroundings. If you were used to a conservative environment maybe you got too used to opening as the nice guy with too big a smile and used to waiting far too long for a close. In a college environment expect a lot of easier women who want to experiment, get out there and not be tied down as well as having a bunch of guys who are either out with them or who they can call up and head out with on a whim. They want a fun guy to talk to and hang out with, not the nice guy. You'll definitely need to learn to AMOG if you don't already know how to.

What was your game like previously? How did you play it? Was it night game or day game? How long would you wait to close? Were you even at PU for very long or just seen results compared to your past and called it a day?

Give us examples of how you succeeded in the past and how you have failed in the present. This will give a good gauge of where things are going right or wrong and if it's your game or not.

From reading what you said it seems like you haven't adapted at all and jumped to the conclusion that your game is perfect for every situation and social setting and blamed the "bad" in your life.

Perhaps I am still in the stage of adapting.

In my old environment my day game and night game were vastly different:

For day game I did a lot of social circle gaming, and thrived off social proof. Basically I was friendly and sociable, and established more comfort before I closed.

For night game I would hit up a party or night club, and get a lot of numbers. I would dance with several girls, and make out with many of them. The next time I saw them after the club I would be really aggressive and close.

Since writing my original post my game is starting to pick up. I am establishing a good social circle with some high value guys and girls. I am in the know, and have access to booze and parties.

right now I am at the point of my game where I am collecting numbers from many girls to broaden my social circle. All but two girl have texted me back. So I am 8 for 10.

My day game in my new environment is to be social, fun, collect numbers, and plant the seed for parties later on.

My play for night game and closing is to have the girl(s) at my place to pre-game (Although I am drinking more moderately) and then head out to the event. During the first half of the event I am going to be social with everyone and have fun, and during the second half I will isolate the girl at the event. Once I get some good escalation, I will bring the girl back to my place to close.

On a side note, I am hitting a party tonight so any pointers?

Ok if you've moved to a new town the first thing you want to do is build a social circle. You don't neccesarily need to game women at this party and if I were in your position I'd spend the night focusing on building a social circle.

I know a lot of guys probably won't agree with me here and that's fine but the way I see it (and I speak from personal experience) is that a social circle is absolutely vital for picking up women. Especially in a college SPAM.

If you can introduce some of your friends to PUA you'll have potential wingmen who'll be able to motivate you and provide a massive advantage infield. If you're known as the type of guy who knows everyone (or even has lots of friends for that matter) both men and women will be drawn to you like moths to a flame. Your friends will introduce you to girls they met meaning you won't have to do a cold approach and if you become friends with a lot of girls while at college as well you'll be seen as pre-selected by other girls.

You can still game girls outside of college as much as you like but focus on building a social circle within college before you go about gaming the women in it.

I hope this dry spell works out for you man.

Spark Plug

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