You just n closed a girl and went in the first text to sexual insinuations... any guy does that and that´s why she answered the way she did

use something closer to feminine language
how would a girl try to repair a fuck up that she does to her girl friend?
be ambiguous but do not try to take back what you said (like saying.... "I meant dancing" ... she´s expecting you to write that... and don´t go further "what kind of girl are you" ...she will probably not even answer)

Try something like you seem embarrassed for real for your bad texting...
"oh damn , no no shit! I usually get misinterpreted..I suck at texting"
that text will loosen her up
then see if she follows up...

If you reply with a loooong long text (a little against what many actually teach at text game) but it sounds genuine and apologetic for her interpretation of disrespect she´ll feel like you´re honest even if you meant to spice things up

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Don't start apologising and/or trying to squirm your way out of it. Be confident and secure, believe in everything you say. It's unnecessary and 'un-alpha' to apologise for something so miniscule.

And DON'T just give up like some others have suggested! Perseverance is key, don't be shaken off by one bitchy text. I don't think this is beyond saving.

Personally I would send her a reply just short of apologising and keeping the issue lighthearted.

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I don't know about the game or "alpha" aspect of this, but her reply was too annoying for me to give a shit. I don't want to spend time with a woman who reacts like that, justified or not. I've met my share of those and, believe me, it's not worth it.

I would probably try to save a little face just in order to reduce awkwardness and her badmouthing me around the gym. Something like:

"Lady, I meant dancing, but honestly, just taking a walk would qualify as more exercise than an elliptical. However, if you can't take a lighthearted double entendre, let's just go our separate ways. See you around."

Again, I don't care if this is alpha or beta or whatever, but I wouldn't be surprised if she changed her tone after that. But it's still more likely that she would try to drag you into a discussion, at which point I would just ignore her.

I definitely like whats being discussed here and i think the moral is NEVER give up, reply with a joke or comment that spins the innuendo back on her and assure her that you're not the type of guy that she's known from the past. This could be done in one or two texts. If two, you need to feel out the reply to the first (or post it on here if you don't have feelings) but reassure her in the next.

To move on because she read into something she obviously wants in the first place is giving up. Rule #1 to those who just give up, everyone always wants to fuck. You just need to show them that you are the one they want to fuck. She wouldn't have given her number out if she didn't. This is just another example of women try to put their foot down and test us men. Giving up is failing the test. Listening to the PUA's on here is winning. You didn't "fuck up bigtime", "blow it", or anything else the haters are gonna tell you. And you weren't "too direct man" or unsaveable. Too direct is:

"hey...its name from the gym. Meet me for a drink tomorrow. I guarantee we will have sex."

What you said was BOLD, confident and an open sexual innuendo. Everything a woman wants. You just need the same boldness to back it up when they test you. And you're doing it over text dude, so its much easier to imply misunderstanding. Maybe in person that would be hard to come back from, but I'm sure you wouldn't have said that without feeling out her vibe first. That's the beauty (and possible downfall) of texting. As long as you stay one step ahead you're golden, and you have plenty of time to do it over text. Unfortunately so do they, which can be challenging if you cant stay one step ahead.

So, are you going to give up because she tried to throw you off your game, or are you going to man up and stay one step ahead?

Leave it for a few days. Then reinitiate with something completely different. If no response move on.

It's not good you went on a rant about how easy the elliptical was. It was about the worse thing you could have done. I'm happy to see any woman working out on any thing. elliptical also is not that easy.

Keep in mind there is a small faction of women out there who would have been turned on by you doing you rant about easy the elliptical was. Maybe she was one of those but it's not a chance you need to take in a gym especially when you are just desperately grasping at straws b/c you obviously don't know shit about how to talk to women. Then you have another problem with suggesting a better work out than the elliptical if you have drinks. what the hell does that mean? Worst routine I have ever read in my life.

However, I think there is a chance you can keep the phone interaction going. If I was in your position I would send a text saying "hey, I want to call you and apologize, I didn't mean to be rude". Maybe she will say ok and you can do that and take it from there.

That is a good reply however it would have been a lot more effective if you texted her that right away. If you were to send it now you're opening yourself up for a response such as "how long did it take you to think of that" I've been in situations like this before I treat them as a shit test In a shit test you have to respond quickly so it doesn't appear like caving under pressure. Same applies in this situation when you offend a girl you have to respond quickly and put a joking funny spin on the txt that offended her so she thinks that that's what you meant all along. longer you wait before you respond more it appears that she her intereptation of the txt was correct and you're just trying to back track and cover your ass. I think this could be saved, but you may have to do a little more then txt her. I would personally recomend talking to her in person say at the gym avoid apologizing. Anyway that's my opinion for what's its worth hope it helps good luck.

I don't think this is the situation where you don't apologize and worry about squirming out. He fucked up about as bad as a person possibly can. First in the initial conversation then the first text. Most likely it's his only chance. The hope is, she found something attractive in him, she realizes he has no experience or people skills but has potential to gain some, and she's in a forgiving mood if he's genuine now.

This happened a year ago. Do you guys think he still reads the forum and gaming this girl ? Waste of effort to give advice here IMO

I didn't even notice haha. Oops...

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i just now noticed that. september of 12. who the fuck is bringing this back up and why? what a creeper

Might have been me that got this thread goin again. I got the weekly mpua forum email, and this was one of their 5 hottest posts of the week I thought I'd throw my 2 cents in without reading the date of the original post. Anyway that's the story next time I'll be a little more observant lol.

Fuck her! And FORGET HER.

There are two ways you can analyse this for yourself.

a) you should have shown more tact in hindsight and been more elegant. next time be more careful.
As much as it stings take it as a "lesson learnt" that strengthens your game.
I did nearly the same thing in text game but then recovered with another text. We agreed to meet for coffee
but then she flaked on me. So I let the whole thing go.

b) Fuck her. She could have been less anal about it, laughed it off, then scolded you later at the drinks stage
of how rude and innapproriate you where but always with good humour, instead friggin writing a whole chapter to you.

I personally like a girl who has a sense of humor and doesn't take such things too seriously, especially when you where doing an innocent word game.

It both cases above, you don't get the girl but you've learnt a big lesson and you've avoided going out with a stuck up bitch.

Necro!