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Hey players, pua's...
I am writing this to see if someone can crack this case and give me an interesting advice!
I am usually good with women, never had a real and serious problem to get a women in bed.
However, this woman I am going to talk about is one exception. Why? I have no idea, but trust me, she is!
I met her last year while she was doing some tourism, so yeah,
we don't live in the same country.
I was able to isolate her from her friends, and was able to spend
3 days with her alone.
First day we had a long and innocent conversation (learned about eachothers lives and stuff). Second day I grabbed a bottle of some nice liquor and took her for a nice walk.
We spent like 10 hours together, talking and talking. At some point we were laying down on the grass, and I asked her to give me a massage. She didn't think twice, she absolutely started giving the massage, and then
asked one in return. So when it comes to Kino, this was considered a huge step for me.
I was able to make her feel really comfortable while touching her all over her body. But for a reason I don't know, I just couldn't make a move, to kiss her or anything. And I was really surprised about it (this is why I call her an exception). And I am quite sure she wasn't that impressed about my innocence. The next day, I asked her to come to my place, and she came. Surprisingly, I messed up again. Couldn't make a move at all. Next day she left to her country, but we kept talking via texting.
Few months later, she told me that she used to have strong feelings for me, but it just can't work out because we're far away from eachother. So here I suppose she friendzoned me immediately.
We kept talking and talking, months went by and I started to have some feelings for her. And I told her about my feelings like 3 weeks ago. She was like "I don't know what to say, I really don't have the same feelings anymore, I have to meet first and see what happens".
So eventually, we're still talking, and I invited her to my country, and she's going to stay at my place for like 2 nights.
I really don't want to screw this up, she's really a catch! Do you think that this is sort of a green light from her? If she comes, it really means that she's giving me another chance to make my move so I can get out of the friendzone. Right?
Sorry for this long story guys, but I would really appreciate some real solving here. Thanks
We don't live in the same country - If you isolated her, she wanted to f*ck you...congrats
3 days with her alone - what are you her tour guide?
spent like ten hours together - this is where you screwed up, she saw you as a guy who didn't do much. Someone who didn't have priorites. She walked all over you here, but sounds like she enjoyed your company.
asked one in return - she was thinking "I wan't to go another level with him, but I'm too shy....maybe if she gives me a rub it'll escalate"
I was able to make her feel really comfortable while touching her all over her body - I would've asked her when i was rubbing her lower back if she wanted me to go lower (a$$)
She just didn't want to feel like a wh ore. You are 100% getting laid when she visits because it'l make her think almost as if she is your girlfriend. Girls like a Guy who takes charge, you my friend lack that. If a woman who is never going to see you again gives you that much interest, chances are she wants an experience, usually involving sex. Now she wants to see you again because she still wanted that experience, you have something that guys around her do not. Man up and march out, at this point you can bang her within a few hours of her arriving, but take it nice and slow and pace yourself.
What you should have done was after giving her the massage, tell her that you gotta get back because you're busy the rest of the day. You then could have asked her if she wanted to come to your place for a bit. This would have resulted in you getting laid because the massage was an IOI, but you leaving because you had something better to do was an IOD. You then give her the IOI of inviting her, and if you received a yes IOI, you compliment her by saying "You actually seem like a lot of fun now".
Cheers.
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