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PostPosted: Wed Aug 14, 2013 6:17 pm 
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Met a great girl a few nights back. We talked a lot and eventually we went to my place. Since it was rather late nothing really happened (we were both tired and drunk), except for some kissing, cuddling and talking. She leaves my place a couple of hours later saying I'm a really sweet guy and that she'd like to see me again, and we kiss one last time.

The following evening I meet her with her friends and she's ignoring me big time. I notice this at an early stage so I ignore her back instead of looking stupid and desperate trying to get her attention. She was even ignoring me when her friends weren't around (we were sort of alone in a public place for a couple of minutes until her friends came back).

What the hell is going on? What am I supposed to do?


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 14, 2013 6:59 pm 
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Met a great girl a few nights back. We talked a lot and eventually we went to my place. Since it was rather late nothing really happened (we were both tired and drunk), except for some kissing, cuddling and talking. She leaves my place a couple of hours later saying I'm a really sweet guy and that she'd like to see me again, and we kiss one last time.

The following evening I meet her with her friends and she's ignoring me big time. I notice this at an early stage so I ignore her back instead of looking stupid and desperate trying to get her attention. She was even ignoring me when her friends weren't around (we were sort of alone in a public place for a couple of minutes until her friends came back).

What the hell is going on? What am I supposed to do?
She wanted you to bang her guts out and you let her down.

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 14, 2013 7:22 pm 
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Here's the thing, you don't know what you don't know. I had a similar situation happen, met a girl and we were getting along famously. All of a sudden she went cold, and I mean COLD. She wouldn't even look me in the eye and never talked to me again. I was baffled at the time, but later I found out she was the cousin of somebody who knows me who doesn't like me. They talked shit to her about me and that was that.

The point being that you can't control the way people think about you. And you have no idea of knowing what it is specifically that they now all of a sudden despise. I would honestly just act normal and not play into it or let it effect you. If you actually care about trying to pursue things with this girl then you may want to ask her why she seems like she's in a bad mood.

It's one thing if a girl gives you shit because you have weak game, but if you didn't even do anything wrong and she is still giving you a hard time then don't even bother trying to deal with her. Just move on.

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 14, 2013 7:34 pm 
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The phrase "girl is ignoring me" doesn't deserve an exclamation mark!

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 14, 2013 9:40 pm 
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You didn't fuck her.


She wants you to be aggressive. What were you waiting for? Her to grab you and start talkin to you ?


She didn't come home with you not to be fucked.. Sure she's not going to be overt with he sexual desires because shes a woman. But coming home with you is a clear sign. Its your job to grab the bull by the horns an lead her to the light.

Stir up some emotion.. Text her " You're asshole for that shit you pulled the other night"

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She's not ignoring me because I didn't fuck her. I actually wanted to have sex, but she said that she was too tired and drunk...


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 Post subject: Re: Girl is ignoring me!
PostPosted: Thu Aug 15, 2013 1:51 pm 
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Great. Doesn't matter what the reason is. You tried to hit it and it didn't work. Now she is acting standoffish and you don't know why. What are you going to do about it? Sit there and try to piece together what you "might" have done wrong? How bout you sack up and continue to game her or just move on to the next dime piece.

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 15, 2013 1:57 pm 
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Great. Doesn't matter what the reason is. You tried to hit it and it didn't work. Now she is acting standoffish and you don't know why. What are you going to do about it? Sit there and try to piece together what you "might" have done wrong? How bout you sack up and continue to game her or just move on to the next dime piece.
You're right, but she's very special and I don't want to let her go quite yet. Do you reckon it's a good idea to ask her why she's ignoring me all of a sudden?


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You're right, but she's very special and I don't want to let her go quite yet.
They are ALL special!!

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happened to me before.. doesn't matter the reason ... but like people said, no f-close on sleep over often times means no second date despite the connection. I don't fully understand it, but it happens.

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You're right, but she's very special and I don't want to let her go quite yet.
They are ALL special!!
I hope more guys understand this.

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No guys, you just don't get it. She's different, she breathes out of her a*s!


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No guys, you just don't get it. She's different, she breathes out of her a*s!

she better be spitting gold out of her vigina for this to be speical

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