Basically what I am saying is if you think when you're visiting her you're gonna fall hard and have strong feelings for her I would advise against going to see her. If you think you can go have a good time with her and not get overly attached then I'd say go for it, but going by your previous post it sounds to me that the 1st option applies more to your situation. The worrying about losing you as a friend doesn't make a lot of sense to me because I have friends (girls) that live far away that I've had feelings for that I can only contact by phone or fb neither of us are worried about losing one another as friends because we can't see eachother. In the end you know best.

this i s your last chance, she still has attracation for you if she is invested enough to come and see you. make your fucking move.

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Our conversation is falling apart day after day. It seems to me like it's almost dead. She said several times, and I agree with her, that she's tired of the internet and the chatting all the time. That's actually why her feelings are off now.
I am telling you, yes right now I have feelings for her, and apparently if things are staying like this, we will stop talking really soon. And none of us wants that to happen.

But let's focus on her instead of me now. Do you think, according to what she already said, she will go for it if I make a move while I am at her place?

I think you'll have to make it happen that's part of seduction. I've met girls before that aren't into me, but I ended up going home with them at the end of the night. If she's not as hot for you as she was before you'll just have to work a bit harder but it can be done. What you should ask yourself she was gonna come see you but now she can't because of money issues is it she can't afford it or she doesn't want to spend the money to come see you? If she doesn't want to spend money to come see you why would you spend your money to go see her? I say if there's something there and you can go have a good time and leave without being attached go for it as for your question ya I think she'll go for it you just have to seduce her again once you're there together.

Well I asked myself this question about her not being able to afford or doesn't want to spend the money, and I even asked her. I know her situation, she's going to buy an apartment for herself now. She got a loan and she's even borrowing some money from her parents. So yeah she can't afford it at all...
Before inviting me to her place she said that she would be able to come but not this month because she's broke.
As for the seduction, I will definitely manage to do what it takes to make things as they used to be, it won't be too easy, but I'll work hard for it to happen.

You've got the right attitude. If you wanna visit her go make it happen, but remember you're gonna have to leave at some point make sure you can do that and not get hung up on her.

Well it's obvious to you now that I am already kind of hung up to her. But in my mind now I am thinking let's go and have a good time together, and we'll see what happens next when it comes to the feelings.

I am not trying to discourage you from taking the trip. If you wanna do it go for it at the very least it will be an adventure. I've visited girls that live far away from me. By the end of it there were some feelings, but that's only natural I just put put them aside when it was time to leave. Hopefully you can do the same. Other then that if you don't go you're always gonna wonder what if so go do it!

Exactly. I hate wondering what if, so it's just better to act about it and go see what's gonna happen instead.
What happens happens and this is something I guess I'll have to deal with when I have to leave in case there are still gonna be some feelings.

Other interesting updates...I didn't feel like risking by going there and spend some money and get nothing, so I decided to talk to her about it, and it worked. She was totally expecting a move from me (even if I haven't mentioned it) and she's more than okay about it...
As for the feelings, I'll just take it step by step and see what happens.

If you guys are interested to know, I met this girl and I came back home today. It was just like as it has to be.
So it was great !

Cool. But what does "it was just like as it has to be" even mean? is that english?

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I guess you know what it means, even if it's not in a perfect English!

I have an idea but clearly you are being coy to hide something

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I just mean that our meeting went as i wanted it to be...we had sex and we made things clear between us about our relationship. So there's nothing to hide.