Do girls generally really wish we fu*cked them? I always feel that it is a sin that I want to sleep with a girl because I always feel the whole thing is unilateral, that is, I try to get the girl into bed.

I had a friend that always said "Girls just need a man-piping sometimes."

And its true. You are not sinning or doing anything wrong. You are just acting like humans are supposed to act: We are all put on this earth to procreate, whether we like it or not, so the innate need to have sex is completely natural.

Women, while subdued (a lot of times) because of societal pressure and norms, are very keen to get destroyed in the bedroom...and i say that in the most gentle way possible. They do want it just as much or more than men do, its just a different route to get there.

As Adam Carolla says, "a man can get a handjob at a funeral", but women aren't wired like that (most of the time), it takes some buttering up and foreplay etc.

Short answers to your question: no you are not sinning at all. Yes, women want the D.

Yes, women want sex, BUT they usually only want it with high value males.

RiRi nailed it

But if you want to get a little deeper into the psychological aspect of this read " My Secret Garden" by Nancy Friday

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Others have answered your specific question just fine, but I doubt your question (and their answers) will solve the underlying issue you're having.

We've worked with many guys, and I can pretty much diagnose what your REAL question is.

It's probably a variant of..."How can I get the women that I want to have sex with me?"

Let's face it...If you were getting lots of girls in bed, then you would already know the answer to your original question.

Your REAL issue is evidenced in how you worded your question. You are thinking about women as an alien creature...not human like yourself.

Cultural influences can create facades in women about not liking sex. However, it's important to realize how similar we all are at our core.

Both sexes have the desire to procreate in their DNA...Both sexes have hormones that create sexual urges... Both sexes have nerves that generate pleasure when stimulated.

Almost any guy who has been with lots of women will tell you stories about girls who act totally different in bed - once they are comfortable with you.

Here's the catch though...Until you start thinking of women as human, then you will always have a level of anxiety around them. You won't be yourself and THEY won't be comfortable around you. All you will see is the facade of "I don't want/like sex."

You know why gay guys have such an easy time talking to women and getting close to them? Think about it, and I think you will take step 1 to solving your biggest obstacle right now in understanding and having sex with women.

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