Hey everyone,
So there's this girl I'm gaming, and I do believe she's attracted. Since I had a deeper understanding about The Game, I always proceeded with the " I'm the Prize " mindset. And I'm positive that she got it. I froze her out a couple of times when she started those girls mindgames each one of them was for around a week, and both times she re-contacted me. So this is the part I don't get: Should I at any part like REALLY show interest ? Not in a needy way but still let her know that I'm interested in her. I mean I flirt with her all the time. And each and every conversation there's this part when I do these little " sexual allusions " about us trying to stay out of the Friend Zone, but still, what would keep her off moving to the next guy if I don't show interedt. So this is my question: Should I or should I not show interest not just with this girl, but any girl that I'm gaming.
Thanks everyone,
And keep up the good work, this is really a gold mine !

Ok, you are stumbling on a massive myth within the community that was started by mystery back in the day. That being, showing interest is generally not good. This is 100% wrong.

Showing interest is good good good! You just have to do it in the right way! Always flirt with girls, flirt with all girls all the time! It's only bad if you are getting a clear red light ad you ignore it/can't see it.

Watch Jared psych's video talk on qualification & interest. Shows you exactly the kind of interest that girls like.

You show your interest by eye contact, physical esclation ... get close to her, make out with her?

Thanks Matt ! I watched the whole 40 minutes of Pych's video. He gave some good material and a deeper understanding on showing interest, the Ambiguous Interest is more like me so I'm gonna go with that but, what do you think about the "Being the Prize " mentality, playing hard to get and keeping up challenges, should I carry on with that ?
Thanks. And I really loved the video !

You may have missed the point. Ambiguous interest is just for initial flirting. It's to set you up as an attractive man that is comfortable around girls. It's great for friendzoning girls, but unless the girl is very confident (or drunk) you are going to have to show sexual/genuine interest to get anywhere other than friendly interactions with sexual undercurrents (not a bad thing per se, just depends on your goals).

Don't play hard to get BE hard to get. Even then, the "hard to get" part is for between meetings. When you are hanging out/partying with girls show interest in them. Be flirty, smack their asses, listen to them, tell them you like them and why, give them lots of hugs and kisses. Be honest about your intentions, don't play stupid games.

The whole "I am the prize so I shouldn't show interest" mentality is fucked and will hurt your results (trust me). Think about it as giving girls the gift of your interest, after all you find them so attractive/cool/sexy that you can't help it!

Ask the question fast, get the answer fast.

Also, you should watch as many 21 convention talks as you can (linked from psyches vid), they are all awesome.

Thanks man. Much appreciated, really helped me out.