I meditate all the type. Type "tantric sex" into your favorite search engine to learn more... I started meditating in a Tae Kwon Do class. Then I took a few yoga classes and learned some different ways of meditation.
Personally, I think a key is to visualize yourself being a success. You will get the girl, you will get laid, she will laugh at your jokes (much of the time): these are all powerful subliminal messages.
Sometimes a mantra also helps. My favorite is "Om", which is a natural sound of relaxation. Grandmaster Tae Yun Kim is excellent for meditation instruction. She is from Korea and has had to overcome many, many obstacles:
http://taeyunkim.tumblr.com/post/561253 ... meditation
http://youtu.be/OqpiDZ04uuI
The video is a Tai Chi-like meditation that enhances Ki/Chi (life force) energy and helps focus.
ENJOY.

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