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PostPosted: Fri Aug 09, 2013 5:08 pm 
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Hey all,I'm completely new to this and would seriously appreciate help for this situation....

I've met a girl I like,we get on great but when I asked her out she said no (she was still in love with her ex), we get more friendly and she see's me talking to a girl and got a bit jealous then she tell's me some guy is taking her out (this is a few months after she said no to me), she has a date and basically tells,me how wonderful this new guy is,I said you should've went with me when you had the chance and she looked down and said "you're probably right" then went back to this other guy.
I think she genuinely likes him but I still want my turn, he's a prick!

They're about to have their second date, is it too late for me?
Any help would be great!
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PostPosted: Fri Aug 09, 2013 5:15 pm 
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She says she is still in love with her ex, then goes out with another dude. She is not into dating you, move on.


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 09, 2013 5:32 pm 
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She says she is still in love with her ex, then goes out with another dude. She is not into dating you, move on.
It was a few months ago that she said that, she had told me she was ready to move on but I left it....trying to build attraction and all that :lol:


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 09, 2013 6:43 pm 
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You can't build attraction if you're an orbiter. The cure for oneitis is to get out sarging. If she notices you getting other girls (=pre-selection), she can get jealous and then you can win her over. And in the meantime you'll have some fun with other girls and then you probably don't want her anyway.


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 09, 2013 6:44 pm 
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She playing games.

Probably best to avoid but if you can't help yourself... I would just encourage her to fuck him and let reverse psychology do its thing.

If she is trying to make you jealous the I guess she may hold some attraction for you.

Why Is the dude a dick? He's done nothing wrong?

Meanwhile, keep macking on other chicks, keep your Facebook active and she may be in touch.

Usually starts with a few likes in Facebook then some texting.

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 09, 2013 7:05 pm 
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I asked her out she said no
at this point you should move on other than some low effort freeze-out and text pinging (rechecking logistics), or a hail mary. dont waste your time on weak prospects.


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 09, 2013 9:10 pm 
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It's amazing hearing the obvious from other people!
I think you're all spot on,thanks peeps!


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PostPosted: Sat Aug 10, 2013 1:24 pm 
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It's good you've taken that advice man, I'm new to PUA but not women and I've had this happen a few times to me. Moving on was the best thing i've ever done. The best outcomes are the ones from school, they've become mothers who complain about those morons that don't even look after the kids they've helped create and all of a sudden I'm like wine and got better with age. It's so satisfying!

I love the idea of encouraging her to get with the guy,
Her: "Oh I should've been with you"
You: "You're probably right, oh well you've got that guy now, get the love life going i'm just going to play the field for a while"

Best of luck mate, you sound like a good guy that's got a women who is a princess that needs to realise she has to work for her knight :)


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