Hey guys. So I met this girl online. We exchanged a few messages until I told her to text me. A few days go by, and then I get a text from her last night. Exchanged a few texts today but I'm not sure where to go from the last text. It's been over an hour and she still hasn't responded. Did my last message come across as suggesting she prostitute? I"m still new at this, especially text game so any help would be greatly appreaciated.


Her:
Hey (my name) it's (her name) from Match. So sorry I haven't messaged until now. I was at a concert all weekend and house hunting. Hope to chat soon

(next day)
Me:
Catwoman! (she has a pic up of her dressed up as Catwomen for Halloween) How are you? That must have been some concert if it lasted all weekend.

Her:
Hahah it was Veld so they spread out the DJs over two days. How's it going?!

Me:
I have no idea what Veld is but it sounds like fun (I Admit, I'm a bit of a geek). I'm just out with my suster looking for a shirt to wear to a friends birthday this weekend. Bah... I hate shopping! What are u up to this evening?

Her:
I'm checking out condos. Looking to buy .

Me:
Thats exciting. Sounds like you are on the hunt and determined to find something really soon.

Her:
Lol somewhat . My rent is up sept 1st.

Me:
Yikes... Will you be living with SPAM if you don't find anything by then?

Her:
Ill be essentially a panhandling hobo
Hahah nah I have friends I an stay with

Me:
lol... well if you don't find a place and your forced onto the streets, that SPAM and Joker guy seem to do pretty well at the corner of Yonge and Dundas. Just put on your Catwomen cosutme, pose in a sexy way, and I'm sure you'll make enough money to keep you off the streets.


Thanks guys.

Update: She just texted me back with...

Her: hahaha... or sold into some weird prostitution ring.

So she responded but does anyone have any suggestions how to escalate this conversation?

dont try to increase attraction by over-texting, you are just gonna lower your value by offering too much rapport no matter how clever and witty and PUA'ish the contexts of your texts actually are. Your only goal texting should be planning to meet up, or providing the minimum amount of comfort to confirm her initial interest for the meet up, in which the real game can begin. You have already had enough unfocused banter with her, you keep this up and shes either gonna lose interest or friend zone you

also when she mentioned checking out condo's you should have said: "checking out condoms?" I have enough magnums but thank you"

You sound like an Intellectual Whore, how far is she from you? Veld is a music festival in Toronto.

Agree with detox. If you overtext you will come off as needy.

Some basic rules for text game: vary the length of your responses, too many short messages and you sound cold and uninteresting, too many long massages and you will sound like you are trying too hard. Also, vary the time gap between your responses. A few quick replies to show your interest, and a few longer ones to show she is not the center of the world. Think about how insecure you felt when she took her time on that last reply, now your goal is to make her feel that way. Remember, we always want what we can't get. Finaly, end the conversation on a high note. When you feel the conversation is at its apex send her a "gotta go bla bla, laterz" message or simply stop replying. I know it's counterintuitive, but you want to end the conversation in a way that makes the girl remember you on your best, not on a downhill boring conversation that should have died out long ago.

If you are into text game, I recomend you read "The ultimate guide to text and phone game", by Braddock.

How do I sound like an intellectual whore? Should every Torontonian know about the festival? Like I said, I'm a bit of a geek, plus i'm 34 so I'm not hip to what music festivals are playing around the city.