brothers, i made a post about a certain girl but only got one reply...i had a curious question about a girl who has an on and off relationship for a while..i met this girl on facebook and quickly number closed..i texted her tried to build comfort..she started claiming she is in love with me and she cannot wait to meet me...i was in a different town so i sent her money for her travel(terrible move i know) she never came and i was left pissed..anyway i came back to her city and planned to hang out...she cancelled our plans i called her out on that and she said she was sorry..i basically told her what a horrible human being she was...i froze her for three weeks after that..she contacted me claiming i had trouble understanding her and that she has feelings for me..i then left her city..while i was away we kept being in contact and she promised to take me on a vacation with her...i came to her city a few days ago....i made plans to hang out tonight she cancelled and she is not answering my calls..this is my question if a girl is not into you why cant she leave you alone? is this girl normal? and if you have met girls like her masters and students of seduction how do you deal with them? i just have trouble making sense out of this entire interaction with her..this girl is not committed at all and honestly does not look like she gives a shit so what is motivating her? what is her motive? why would she keep following a guy she does not want to commit to? and her motive is not anything like money cause i do not give her money and her family us rich or is she motivated by money? i have so many questions but i would appreciate if anyone answered me....that is why i joined this community..to pick the brains of people with more experience than i do.

she is not motivated by money, you stated you sent her money for travel and she didnt come

dude women love to make men chase and the more you feed into her, the more fun she has. shes not gonna meet with you because to her your predictable and shes knows she has you. she doesn't have to work for it

time to move on

i was thinking what if she is bipolar? such chicks are unpredictable...the problem is not that i keep chasing her i ignore her at times and she keeps chatting and calling..and she is not a gold digger....her parents are rich and they have deposited thousands of dollars into her account..she even promised to lend me her own money so that i can invest...and she seems honest...it is strange bro...i have never seen something like this before and i am not new to pua...i have some little experience.

Dude you must have blinders on towards this girl. Think about it she basically stole your money, then you went to see her she flaked, but she has feelings for you?! She's gonna lend you some of her $ to invest? Ya right do yourself a favor and can her before you get played again.who cares if she's bipolar not your problem delete her # don't contact her again if you keep in touch with her you're setting yourself up to be played simple as that.