So I had added this girl over facebook (who I knew back in primary school). We started messaging each other and we have been having very lengthy conversations everyday.

Now the conversations have never died, we are always talking about something new/different. I have used the negg tactic to her a few times and very rarely do I compliment her on her looks (she is a model).

So far everything has been going good and we can relate to a lot of things.

my only problem is that I want to know how to stay out of the friendzone and what NOT to do.

I have asked her if she wanted to see a movie on friday, and she sounded pretty keen but at the same time she mentioned that she may be "busy".

Also we were asking each other random questions and one of them was 'where do you see yourself in a years time', this was her response " In a year, I see myself with my dream body, toned and tight, with top cardio, living a healthy and busy lifestyle, living in an apartment in the city, preferably alone!.

^ Is she indicating that she wants to be alone, or am I just over thinking the situation.

She also said that one of her weakness's is good smelling guys, so I will definitely be wearing a very good cologne if we do go out.


To much confusion going on, need some help guys!

I'm guessing she is young. Living alone is quite normal. She is fed up with living with parents who interfere with everything.
Doesn't mean she don't want to have a bf, but nothing serious yet probably.
Saying all this it probably doesn't mean shit. The situation is not very confusing at all. Take her on a date and do your best escalate try to kiss, have sex etc.

You hit the nail on the head about her being young, we are both 18. I have been chatting to her more and she really is keen on the movie so I'm no longer worried about that!

Just got to make sure my game is solid and that I make no mistakes.

thanks man

I think you need to get her number and switch things up to an actual phone conversation.


Second, from the looks of things this girl is going to get away from you because you don't feel you deserve a girl like this. You're reading into what she saying(chick move) instead of interpreting what she says into whatever is going to make your game tighter(Player move).

Just take a deep breath, pull up your pants, and be a man. She's just a girl. There a billions of them and what you will come to understand is that for the most part they all are just alike. Theres a manuscript for this: you know how all "dogs" are pretty much the same. You do this, they do that etc. Thats women and I'm not saying men are any different.

Get over her dude. You're better than her. The highest position she can hold in this world is a queen. The highest you can hold is a king. There are no queendoms, only kingdoms. If a king marrys a woman what does she become? "Queen!". If a queen marries a man what does he become? Nothing, he stays the same.

You're are a man, she is just a woman. You are better than her. No matter what she looks like. You're BETTER.

I hope that sticks

- Joey

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