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Near the end of a date, how to judge if you can invite the girl to a hotel with a pretext? You know, if you prematurely invite a girl to a hotel, the girl will spot your intention and never go out with you since then.
Please advise.
That's not true at all... and it is one of the most difficult things that we as men need to realize and overcome while gaming... Escalating, stating your intentions, inviting her to a hotel, etc. as long as you are not pushy, will never damage the relationship between you and her.
Even when she rejects you at the moment, and say that whatever you suggested will never happen. Chances are that if you are cool with her reaction, eventually what she will be the one suggesting to do what she said that will never happen.
The only risk about escalating is that you might take things to the next level.